In today’s video we’re going to be discussing how to attract a woman who is not interested in you. Just because a woman appears uninterested in you doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. It’s worth considering the reasons she’s giving you this current vibe. And today we’re going to take a look at some proven techniques you can use to get a girl to like you even if she appears to be uninterested.
How To Attract A Woman Who Isn’t Interested
Women like to play hard to get. It makes them more attractive to men because they are considered ‘top tier. You might think a lady is not interested in you but really she is just playing hard to get.
You might notice she is nervous when talking to you which can make the conversation boring. She might not seem happy or teases you but not in a flirty way. She will lean away from you instead of towards you, will never be with you alone, is always busy and never dresses to impress. The odds seem stacked against you. It looks like she really doesn’t like you and you can’t force her to.
There are things you can do though to try and attract a lady who is not interested in you. Granted some ladies will just not be interested in you but some ladies can change their minds.
In today’s video, we are going to look at how to attract a woman who is not interested in you.
1- Body Language
Use your body language to attract your special lady. If she seems closed off in her body language maybe with her arms crossed, it is a sign that she is not interested. You should display open body language instead.
Body language also shows the other person how confident you are. So if you display open body language to someone that is not interested in you. They will realise that you are un-phased by their behaviour.
You should get as close to her as is appropriate. If she is uninterested guys, you don’t want to freak her out. If you are in a group setting though, stand next to her. Also maybe touch her arm or shoulder when you are making a joke or she has said something funny.
Don’t do this too often but do it enough to move you from the friend zone. She might get some chills down her spine and think could there be something more here?
I have ended up dating guys that originally I was not interested in. I found that their body language was something that flipped my opinion of them.
I found their body language literally so attractive that it just got me excited. Eventually, one thing led to another. So it is totally possible to influence someone with your body language.
2- Spend time on your own self-confidence
If you don’t love yourself, how do you expect someone else to love you? You must work on your self-confidence.
Maybe she is not interested at the moment because you are not displaying any confidence! Spend some time working on building your confidence up. Some way’s to do this is to put yourself out there more.
At work for example volunteer for a group project or present at the big meeting, you have next week.
Doing these things will slowly build your confidence and eventually, you will feel like you can take on the world. You should also read out mantras and things into the mirror. Things like I am brave, I am wise, I am confident. This will imprint in your brain and make you a more confident person.
Self-confidence does not happen overnight but once it does, you will be able to attract the woman who is just not interested.
3- Play it cool
Women love the chase. If you have been acting very interested and then all of a sudden you are playing it cool, she will wonder why? She will be thinking is he not interested in me anymore? Was I too cold? Suddenly she will start paying you more attention, standing next to you or asking you questions.
It could also be that you have been showing your interest and she has been giving you nothing. She might not actually like you or be interested. So playing it cool is less embarrassing when she tells you that. You can act like, yes I am not interested either.
To play it cool, stop paying her so much attention. Don’t make eye contact or ask her any questions. Stand far away from her and display some closed-off body language.
Also, don’t chase her with messages. Sending messages 10 times a day without her replying, does that sound familiar? Don’t be that person. Just message her once a day and wait for her reply.
4 – Smell and look the part
Make sure you always smell nice, it attracts ladies. If you also dress nicely and look lovely, the lady is more likely to start becoming interested in you.
She might not yet be mentally attracted to you but she could become physically attracted. Once she gets to know your mental side, it could go even further.
5- Be a good listener
So she is not interested in you, well you can change that. If a woman is not interested you need to show her all the amazing things about you.
One way to do this is to be a good listener. If the girl is confiding in you and telling you about maybe a problem she is having, you need to listen to her. Maybe reply with some of the things she has said to show she is listening. For example if she is complaining about a flat mate, you could ask her a question like. “How will you talk to your flat mate about the problems you are having?”.
It will make her think and let her know that you really do care about what she is saying. This might flick something in your brain that makes her more interested in you.
6- Be a good conversationalist
Another great way to make her interested is to be a conversationalist. Bring up topics and talk about things that interest her.
Tell her some interesting facts or talk about something that is in the news at the moment.
One top tip is to research a little about her job and then ask her questions about it. If she works in a kitchen shop, you could ask her “What is your favourite kitchen item that you sell” or you could be more specific.
Either way being a really good conversationalist can make you instantly more interesting to a lady.
7- Win over her friends first
You may already be in similar friend groups or maybe through work, you know who her office friends are. Use this to your advantage and make sure you are friends with them.
Focus on forming relationships with them and finding things in common. The more time you are able to naturally spend with them, the more time you will be able to spend with her.
This gives you the opportunity as well to learn more about her. Friends naturally give away information about their friend. It also allows her more time to get to know you and over time she may start to be more interested in you. She might think, I like him more than a friend.
Even though you are trying to be friends with her friends and win them over. Don’t friendzone yourself, make sure to flirt with her and make sure it is clear that you like her more than a friend.
So to wrap this up, it’s better to win over a ladies heart as opposed to searching for signs. If she doesn’t seem like she is into you, then focus on being the best man you can.
Boost your self-confidence, focus on your body language, play it cool, look and smell nice and be good at listening and conversation. Also don’t forget to spend some time winning her friends over. That is a great way in and may create a spark between you both.
Try to just be yourself and if you win her over, that’s fantastic. If she still seems like she is not interested, then it just might not be meant to be. Move on and find someone who really loves you for you.