When most people think of shyness, they think of the negative associations that come hand in hand with being shy. There are however, some benefits that you may not initially be aware of. Did you know that being shy can actually be a bonus? Today we’re here to show you why.
So what are some good things about being shy? Where do shy people excel and what are some of their natural strengths. Read on below to find out.
1. You’re experienced at overcoming obstacles
Shy people tend to be experienced at overcoming and dealing with difficulties in life because they’ve had to grow and learn how to cope with their shyness. Without your shyness you may never have become as experienced as you are at this.
2. You actually work well in human services
Shy people make great listeners and come across very empathic which is why people find it easier to open up and talk to them. This is why they perform well in human service positions.
3. You’re modest, and people like that
A common trait of shy people is modesty. Modest people are good at accepting compliments graciously, they don’t brag about their accomplishments and they’re quick to offer praise to others.
4. You’re good at thinking before you act
It’s in your nature to think through things carefully before taking action, and that’s a handy trait to have. Be careful not to over-do it with this though. You don’t want to be held back from trying things because you’re worrying too much about the risks.
5. People find it easier to trust you
As someone who is known for keeping themselves to themselves you’re instantly a lot more trustworthy than others.
6. People find it easy to approach you
If you have just a small amount of shyness, people find you more approachable. People who come across a little shy are rarely seen as threatening and that makes people happier and more confident coming to talk to you.
7. People find you calming
shy people can actually end up having a very calming effect on those who are normally highly strung. This is because you’re not know to over-react to situations, you take your time to assess things carefully before acting.
8. You’re happy working alone
A lot of normal people actually really struggle with this, they can’t concentrate on their own and they’d much rather be working as part of a team or surrounded by others. Shy people on the other hand are more than happy to work on their own and they’re great at concentrating during these periods.
9. Your friendships are deeper and more meaningful
When you’re shy making friends isn’t always so easy. But because of this, you value the friendships you do make more highly. Not being known for small talk either, you’ll typically end up having deeper more thoughtful conversations when you do speak together, this makes your friendship even stronger.
Conclusion
So there you have it. 9 benefits of being shy. Did you find today’s article or video helpful? Share your thoughts on this subject in the comments section.