Do you want to learn how to get a girlfriend? Have you ever heard about the Law of Attraction? Well today we’re discussing how you can use the law of attraction to get a girlfriend.
This is an interesting concept that you can actually learn a lot from no matter your opinion on the subject, so try to watch with an open mind and see how you can use the law of attraction to your benefit.
Hello! Welcome back. Today I’m going to teach you all about manifesting and the law of attraction. It’s something that is sometimes associated with the book The Secret and it’s all about spirituality but there’s a lot more to it.
Now the law of attraction can help you win big in life and achieve some great things, including getting a girlfriend. You might be thinking yeah right whatever, but it’s true and it’s time for you to discover this awesome power.
The Law Of Attraction
What is Manifesting?
Manifesting is when you write down or say out loud something you want, in the hopes that you get here.
It’s actually very simple but not many people understand how powerful it can be. I have a friend who uses manifesting as a tool all the time. He has kindly given us some expert manifesting tips –Â
- If you would like to write down the things you are trying to manifest then I would get a dedicated notebook. Only use it for this.
- You want to manifest in a calm environment. I always do it in the same place, my bedroom. I light candles and take some deep breaths to get myself into the right zone.
- If you want to say the things you are trying to manifest out loud then I would suggest repeating them at least 3 times, don’t rush through them speak as slow as possible.
- Be as specific as possible as to what you want and when you want it.
Are you now wondering well what would I ask for? It’s simple, what do you really want? You could ask for your dream job that you would like to start next year. You need to be specific and realistic with what you are asking for.
You could manifest your dream house, try to think about what you want it to look like, how many rooms it would have, where it would be, how much it would cost and what your life would look like if you had the house. Write this all down and repeat it allowed.
Try to focus on three things you would like to manifest at a time. Keep them written in your notebook but also around your room, on your mirror for example or somewhere else you would look at every day.Â
Some people believe that the universe listens to what you are manifesting and makes it happen and maybe this is true. What I think though is that when you start to say things you would like, your brain starts to listen and subconsciously you start working towards these goals which makes them come to life! Powerful stuff ae!
What is the Law of Attraction?
Now let’s jump straight into what the law of attraction is? Well manifesting and the law of attraction is connected.
The law of attraction had its moment in the spotlight and then many people just forgot about it. It is a real thing though that really works and can be applied to your relationships.Â
Why the law of attraction won’t work
The law of attraction won’t work if you think like this:
“My life sucks. I will never get a girlfriend because I am not attractive to anyone. Girls think I am ugly and a waste of time. I am not confident enough to even talk to a girl.
My friends all have girlfriends but I am the loser of the group and I don’t know why they even want to hang out with me. I will be alone forever”Â
This is what is called a lack mentality. Which basically means, a negative mind. Instead of focusing on the positives and having self-confidence, you are constantly focusing on the bad things that have happened and will continue to happen to you.
By putting out these negative thoughts, you will get them straight back and it just won’t get any better.
How the law of attraction will work
If you want the law of attraction to work you need to put out like for like which means you need to send positive thoughts into the world and get them back. You need to focus on what you want, not the fact that you want it.
There is a distinction between them both. If you focus on what you want, your subconscious mind will work towards this, as I mentioned above! If you only focus on the fact that you want something, a BMW for example. Your brain will only see the negatives!
If you want the law of attraction to work you need to put all of your attention in one place and only think of that. For example, if you want a girlfriend you need to think about what it would be like to have a girlfriend, what it would feel like, the kind of girlfriend you would like and everything in between!
Don’t worry about the fact that it’s not happened yet, it will happen if you keep picturing it in a positive light. Keep your eye on the prize and you will have the girl in no time!Â
Ways the Law of Attraction can help you get a girlfriend
Be ok with yourself first
Before you even start using the law of attraction to attract a partner, you need to be ok with yourself first. Yes, I do mean self-love! You have to love yourself and feel confident within yourself if you want to enter into a healthy relationship.
This might mean putting your dreams of a fantastic relationship on the back burner for a while so that you can spend some time focusing on yourself.
This might seem quite counterproductive because why wait? But this step will ensure the relationship you do enter is healthy and will go the distance.Â
Be grateful for the relationships you have
The law of attraction is all about putting positive energy out into the world so that you can get it back. That’s why you are grateful for all the relationships you already have with friends, co-workers and family.
Think about all the wonderful people you have in your life and tell them how thankful you are that they are a part of your life. By doing this, you are actively encouraging more relationships to enter your life.Â
Let go of judgement
Judgement is a negative emotion and we don’t want those when we are trying to attract a new girlfriend so we! Sometimes we judge people too quickly when they enter our life instead of getting to know them more.
If we dismiss people too quickly we risk losing out on opportunities.Â
Don’t sell yourself short
Selling yourself short is a sign that you are not practising self-love and are suffering from low confidence. If you sell yourself short all the time then not only is this negative thinking but the people around you will start believing what you are saying.
You need to re-frame your thinking by saying things you might not believe. For example, saying something like “I am worthy of a wonderful girlfriend” or “I am confident”.
If you say these things enough, your brain will believe you and you will be a more confident person.Â
Forget the Disney ending: make your own story
Focusing too hard on making everything perfect won’t get you very far.
The law of attraction does not mean that everything is going to work out perfectly. You may get a girlfriend through the power of it but your relationship could still meet challenges along the way.
You need to just focus on what your dream partner is like and how they are going to fit in with your life. Stand back and make your own story.Â
Use visualization
A really powerful way to attract your dream girlfriend is by using visualization.
Visualization is when you picture what you want in your mind. Sit back and close your eyes. Picture what your girlfriend would look like and what your life together would look like. Imagine every single details things like what she will smell like and the type of personality she will have.
Do this every night before bed or early in the morning and see what happens!Â