Sigma men are often known as lone wolves. They are popular and successful but also highly independent and self-reliant.
Sigma’s are often the people that everyone wants to speak to but that you are likely to find in the corner of a room at a party. These men are very popular with women because once you get to know them you understand how driven, reliable, funny, friendly and kind they are. They don’t need a woman but when they find the right lady, they will let her into their lives.
Sigma men are often softly spoken and they have a mysterious nature about them. This intrigues a lot of women and makes them want these men even more.
In today’s video we are going to talk about the sigma male traits that girls love. You might even find yourself identifying with some of these traits.
Are you wondering what a sigma male looks like? Well some famous sigma’s are Giacomo Casanova (who we know got a lot of ladies), Steve Jobs, James Dean and Harry Styles. Now let’s move onto what traits these sigma males have in common.
What makes a woman crave a man
A true leader
Sigma’s ability to be both popular and thoughtful make them great leaders. They can easily pick up followers, but the true test of any leader is how they treat them.
Sigma’s treat everyone with respect, they listen to what they have to say and when it comes to making decisions they are very level headed. A sigma male would never act on impulse especially when other people are involved. They would rather retreat to their own personal space while they decide what move to make next. They also don’t subscribe to a dictator type leadership.
Sigma’s believe that everyone should have a chance to have a say which is one of the things that makes them such great leaders.
A lover of freedom
You would not find a sigma chained to a desk working for a huge corporation. They are more likely to be entrepreneurs, writers, artists or even celebrities. They need the freedom of being able to work whenever they want and to be able to live their lives.
Sigma’s are all about balance. They have level heads which means they understand how valuable a great career is and they are often very successful at whatever they do but they also want to have the freedom to just get away. Sigma’s will often disappear into the wilderness where they can re-charge. They will only be in a situation that takes away some of their freedom if they are gaining something from it like money.
As a lover of freedom, it can be difficult for a sigma male to find a partner. He needs a partner who can respect his need for freedom and is not always clinging on to him. He wants to spend time with his partner, but he also wants alone time to collect his thoughts. Anyone who has a sigma partner needs to understand this or it simply will not last.
Mysterious
Sigma’s are known to be mysterious. It’s difficult to know what they are really thinking. The truth is although they can be deep thinkers, they probably are not really thinking about that much. Some girls can find this frustrating because they feel as though they are hiding something but other girls like this mysterious aspect of their personalities. Sigma men will never give everything away, even if they are around someone they trust, they like to keep things to themselves.
Solo Player
Harry Styles used to be part of boyband One Direction, before heading off in his own direction and going solo. This is typical sigma behaviour. Sigma’s as mentioned earlier on in today’s video are great leaders. They would far rather work by themselves though. The social aspect of their personality allows them to work within a team, but this does not mean this is what makes them happy. They would rather tackle a project by themselves if they can.
Observer
Sigma’s would rather look and listen then jump straight into a situation. They like to take a step back and observe. This could be in an emergency, when there is a work problem or when they are meeting a girl for the first time.
Although they are popular and do not lack confidence, when it comes to meeting a girl, they would like to observe her behaviour first. This means they are very insightful and if they get to know the girl more, they will start pointing out things to her about her behaviour that will make her feel as if he really understands her. This really is something girls love and is a great sigma trait.
Rebel with a cause
You might be visualising a sigma male as a good boy, but they are often far from it. They are popular and also independent with a rebellious streak. They tear up the script and forge their own path. That is why people like Steve Jobs who was a sigma often do trailblazing things like create the world’s first smartphone. They don’t see the same barriers that some other personality types do.
Girls are seriously attracted to rebel boys and especially sigma rebel boys. They are not rebels in the sense that they are constantly in trouble but more that they are out the box thinkers. This is what makes them so successful in whatever they put their mind to and why girls are lining up to bag one.
Dominant introvert
Sigma’s do display introverted personality types, they need to be alone to recharge and gain more energy. In saying that sigma’s are a different type of introvert. Sure they need to be alone but they are more social then other introverts. They have more dominant personality types and can often be louder and speak their mind more than other introverts. Which makes them attractive to other introverted and extroverted women. They see them as the best of both worlds. They can stay in on a Saturday night and watch movies, but they can also go out to a bar and have a good time with them.
Self-sufficient and independent
Sigma men are very self-sufficient and independent. They earn their own money and can look after themselves. A woman would never have to run round after a sigma, doing his washing and making his dinner. He would have this all covered which of course is very attractive to the ladies.
Curious mind
Sigma’s are extremely curious men. They see the world as full of possibilities instead of taking things at face value. They are always thinking but why? But how? It’s a lovely way to be and it makes them very interesting people to spend time with.
Respectful
A sigma man would never be rude to a lady. He is respectful to everyone around him, he always uses his manners and takes a genuine interest in what everyone has to say. This is a big tick on a ladies long list of wants as she never has to be worried about him disrespecting her or anyone else around him.
Charismatic
Sigma men are full of life and character. They may be independent but that does not mean they lack personality. Quite the opposite they save everything up for when they are around people. They could charm anyone they meet and are positive rays of sunshine in any room they walk into.
He knows what he wants
Sigma men are driven and are often very successful. When a lady meets a sigma male she will know pretty quickly his goals and what he wants in life. This is seriously attractive because she does not need to baby him through these decisions, he already knows.
Explorer
A sigma male will often use his alone time to explore and go on adventures. He likes to travel solo and walk-up high mountains. This means he has plenty of life experience and plenty of interesting stories to share which ladies love.
Protector of his personal space
Personal space is sacred to a sigma. He needs to have his own home to retreat to. He isn’t afraid to share his space with a significant other but if this happens he also needs to be able to have his own alone time. He keeps is space tidy which the girls love.