Personality traits women won’t stand for! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing a particular bad quality in a guy that women will always avoid!
People often talk a lot about what girls look for in a guy, but they avoid the topic of what girls don’t look for in a guy. It’s not actually a negative or a bad thing to talk about and it’s especially important to know this so that you can change your ways if you have found yourself falling into this track.
The one thing that women will not stand for in a gentleman is dishonesty. Of course, dishonesty comes in many forms which is what I’m going to be talking about in today’s video.
If you can avoid doing these things you won’t just have more luck with the ladies, you will have more luck with everyone that is around you. Because they are going to respect you more and want you in their lives. So, I want to tell you about the warning signs that reveal a dishonest person so that you can avoid displaying them at all costs.
Worst Personality Trait In A Guy
When guys say ‘always’ or ‘never’ a lot
When a guy uses always or never a lot it is called using absolute language. It’s something girls can notice over time that makes them believe the guys they are talking to is being dishonest.
An example of this happening is when a guy says something like “you never mention how much you like me.” She might reply “you know how much I like you!” and in the girl’s mind, she might think “I tell him all the time that I like him, why is he saying this?.”
If a guy were to keep doing this over time the girl would believe he was trying to deceive her and trick her into thinking she doesn’t say things that she does.
When a guy uses this type of language over and over again he starts to believe it himself, even though deep down, he knows it’s not true!
This can be dangerous because he can start becoming delusional as well as dishonest.
On the other hand, people who are honest tend to use language that is called “soft absolutes” which are words like “usually,” “often,” “probably,” “practically” and “frequently.”
So next time you go to talk to a girl think carefully about the type of language that you are using. We can all fall into the trap of using absolutes so be careful not to and catch yourself whenever you do.
Guys brag by downplaying their accomplishments
This is a classic dishonest trait. It is something both guys and girls do, and they can do it for varied reasons.
Sometimes they might do this because they are self-conscious and don’t have much confidence. If they downplay things then someone else might jump in and say, “hang on, you did great!” which momentarily makes them feel great.
If this is the case, the person is not trying to be dishonest, they are just lacking confidence and need some help to get it back.
Other times though, they know what they are doing.
Often guys will talk about how they have to downplay something they have achieved to make others feel better. For example, a guy might say to a girl “I was promoted at work, but I can’t talk about it around Connor because he missed out on the opportunity, it’s annoying.”
He has told the girl he has a promotion which is fine and it’s good to share your achievements with others. He has then however mentioned that he has to downplay his achievement by not talking about it.
A girl might think this is him being nice in the beginning but then later see it as a red flag. When he adds in “it’s annoying” that shows a girl that he is bragging to show her that he has to downplay his accomplishment.
This is not something an honest person would do. They would mention their accomplishment, celebrate it, and then move on.
They wouldn’t brag or downplay to make it a bigger issue than it needs to be. Guys like this often like to name drop and mention their ‘status’ often.
These are not attractive traits to a lady, and it shows them that the man is most likely dishonest.
Guys who try to impress girls by judging other people
Girls won’t stand for guys who imply that they are better than other people.
They often compare themselves to other people and leave room for someone to jump in and join in with them. They want another person to sink to their level and be mean about someone they might not even know.
They frame it as a healthy form of bonding and make you believe that if you join in, you are part of their group.
It leaves a girl thinking this guy isn’t a genuinely nice person and what does he say about me when I am not here?
Don’t be that guy. Avoid judging other people or trying to act like you are better than them. It is typical dishonest behaviour.
When guys are highly defensive girls notice
Have you ever been around someone who is highly defensive? It can be hard to communicate with them or to get them to understand anything you are saying.
The reason for their defensive behaviour is normally something to do with dishonesty. It could be something they did in their past which has built up in their minds.
Whatever is the source, a girl recognises this behaviour straight away and eventually will confront a guy about it.
Guys who love to debate
This one is tricky for girls to always spot. A healthy debate is actually healthy within a relationship. You might be debating about politics or your favourite type of chocolate. This is of course fine behaviour. It only becomes a problem when a guy debates everything.
Whatever a girl says he has a counterargument or something to say about it. He never gives her time to express his opinion and often carries on speaking instead of waiting for her reply. Girls see this as obnoxious and dishonest behaviour.
Guys who talk too much and say too little
This one might sound a little confusing at first. What I mean by it is when guys talk a lot, but they have nothing really to say. They just talk about everything and anything, but nothing has much substance.
It’s a sign that a guy is trying to hide something and is deflecting from it by talking about other random topics. It’s not a great sign and girls will read this as him being dishonest.
Guys who don’t know how to apologise
It can be hard to admit that you are in the wrong and say sorry for something you have done. It’s a struggle and guys especially find it difficult to do.
However, if you want to attract girls and get their attention then you need to have good morals and values.
One way you can show these is by not being afraid to say sorry. Stand up, hold your head high and put your pride to one side. It’s the best thing you can do.
When guys refuse to apologise for their mistakes it just becomes obvious that they are dishonest people and girls really hate this in a man.
Guys who display uncomfortable body language
We can tell so much from somebody’s body language. If someone is sitting comfortably, displaying open body language then they look confident, honest and approachable.
If someone looks uncomfortable and as if they would rather not be there then it’s off-putting. They seem closed off and like they are not very approachable. When a guy does this it makes him look dishonest and like he is hiding something.
Often when someone is hiding something they are uncomfortable, and this shows even when they don’t mean it to.