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Learn how to get a woman addicted to you!
In today’s video, we’re going to be discussing some attraction techniques that you can use to get a girl thinking about you non-stop.
We’re going to talk about how to stimulate a woman emotionally, find out about her love language and in turn really learn how to get a woman to like you.
The full transcript of this video is available below.
How to get her addicted to you
If you want to make a girl think about you non-stop, you know the type to run for her phone when you call her and to only think about you and absolutely no one else.
Then this video is going to help you, get a girl addicted to you.
That is without using mind games or even lots of hard work.
Now a big clue is to emotionally charge her so stay tuned.
My name is Anna and welcome to the channel.
Think about her happiness
It’s selfish to think okay so how do I get her to want to spend the night with me. Or how do I make her obsessed with wanting to date me.
Instead you need to switch the talk, too how do I make her feel good.
Make her feel happy, a big key in female attraction is making her feel comfortable and a woman is a heap of emotion.
So you need to make her feel good about herself, way before the attraction even begins.
So think about some of the things that she enjoys. What does she talk about a lot?
If you know what it is, join in on that conversation and bring out her happiness.
If you want to go one step further, we do recommend you read the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman to really understand how she ticks.
Get to know her on a deeper level
Forget the nice compliments and all the small talk, instead you have to root a lot deeper.
The deeper your conversations are, the more she’s attracted to you.
Obviously, the more attraction, means she will feel much more addicted.
A deep connection does take a bit of time though it’s not something that you can rush.
If you start talking about childhood memories in say the first two hours of meeting a girl, she may think that you have a lot of built up childhood trauma and you need to see a therapist to sort it out.
So make sure the deep conversations happen at appropriate times.
Start by being present with her and actually listen when she speaks. Remember parts of the conversation that she says and bring them up in the future. Ask her follow-up questions about what she’s talking about and this will help when you are hanging out together.
Make sure that she gets your full attention, stop looking at your phone and stop multitasking just enjoy your time with her.
You may think it’s harmless, checking your emails on a date, in her head, she sees this as very rude. As soon as the negative emotions come in she’s far less likely to turn them around.
Be a great kisser
There’s nothing worse than having a great date with someone and then the first kiss happens and you kind of wish you didn’t. Luckily being a good kisser is a skill that you can perfect.
The perfect kiss is one that has a push and a pull tension sometimes you take the lead and then sometimes she does. You need to make sure there is lots of passion and
Think about passionately kissing her throughout the day, not just before you want to go out there and get some.
Women pick up on this very quick they realize, what type of kiss you give to signal that you want to go to the bedroom.
So keep things exciting and passionately kiss her without going to the next level all the time.
Show off your independence
Women don’t want to fix up a man, they have their own lives to live.
Detach from your parents, pay your own phone bill, clean your apartment and make her feel like you can live comfortably on your own.
Any sign that you are tied down to something else and the lack of independence is going to turn her off completely.
Dress and groom yourself well
Looking good will make you feel good, which gives you a confidence boost. Which is amazing but also looking good means that you attract other females which makes your status much higher.
Even the lady you are dating, will feel good, when you’re wanted by many.
Be a gentleman
Open the door, pull out a chair and make her feel like you genuinely do care about her.
This is really just being nice, kind and humble.
This also means being a gentleman with her in public, in front of other people, such as her friends and family.
If other people make the comment, wow isn’t he lovely kind and nice, she is more likely to become extremely addicted to you.
Be great in bed
So once you’ve got the low down on the perfect kiss, you need to make sure that your bedroom skills are just as good.
It’s the big intimacy builder and if you can connect, she will most definitely become addicted to you.
Every woman has experienced bad sex before and despite how much information there is out there to help, guys need to learn what to do.
Guys ignore it so go out there and do some research and practice.
Don’t just dive straight in and get your fill, instead focus on her, listen to her body and be very patient.
Then you’re good to go.
Sexual incompatibility and a lack of foreplay will stop a woman really falling for you.
Why should she be addicted to a guy that is trash in bed?
When she can just go find someone else who is much better!
Be interesting
You have your own interests and values. So don’t be afraid to bring them up in a conversation.
Obviously she has her own interests and values so you bring up hers as well.
Dating can get very boring if there is nothing new to talk about so start learning some new facts and topics to engage her. You can bring up some funny topics or my personal favorite ask lots of open-ended questions to keep the conversation going.
Which then will lead into those deep conversations. You aren’t going to be spending all of your time in the bedroom so you need to make sure that you are interesting to stay around.
When you were just sat there on the sofa with each other, if you feel embarrassed to talk about the things that you enjoy, then you have no reason to at all because the right lady will support that. You may find that she actually buys you the best christmas presents because she listens to all the niche things that you talk about.
Show your vulnerable side
A woman connects with others through her emotions. She wants to know how someone feels. Not to fix them or change their emotional state. Just make them feel loved and to feel heard.
If a woman is struggling to connect with you, she’s not going to be able to take the relationship too serious. It’s sexy knowing that a guy can be vulnerable. Despite what you think, women understand your emotions even if you do try to hide them.
So by putting up a fake front makes you look like a complete tool. Women can see straight through it. You may as well be honest and vulnerable and get some good brownie points.
Be confident. You may feel nervous on the inside but the art is to make it seem like you most definitely are not. The more you practice confidence in getting out of your comfort zone, the easier it feels.
If you are able to remain confident in her presence she’s going to feel at ease and know that she’s dating a man instead of a nervous boy.
Take the lead
Stop leaving everything up to the woman, go out there and plan a date from start to finish. Pick her up and take her out, surprise her with gifts and please stop making her plan everything.
Guys usually take the back seat and let the woman do all of the planning.
So by switching up the roles she will really appreciate it.
Taking that initiative shows her that you are confident and really care about her and have the whole independence thing sorted.
You may think leaving the holiday planning to your girlfriend is best because well she is much better at it than you. When in fact she just feels like you don’t actually respect or care for her and that she has to pick up a job that you can’t do.
Learn her love language
We did mention this at the very start of the video. I think every couple needs to read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman and the link to purchase that book is in the description bar below.
Everyone has a predominant love language and learning hers and acting on it means she will, well melt in your hands!
She truly will become wanted, heard and loved and will want to keep you around in her life for good.
Tease her and have fun
Playful teasing and flirting makes the relationship fun!
It shows that you are paying her direct attention which makes her feel desired and wanted.
Flirting needs to happen regularly to keep the passion alive.
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Have an amazing day and see you soon.