Learn how to keep a new girl interested in you. In today’s video we’re going to be discussing how to keep a girl interested in you. If you want to keep her interested there are some easy things you can add to your to-do list to keep her coming back for more.
Attraction fades if it’s not maintained, you might have been flirting with a girl for months thinking everything is going amazing for her to turn around and say I’m done. Then you are going to be left wondering what actually happened and what you did wrong. You might have actually done nothing wrong, she might have just stopped being attracted to you.
You will never know though and that’s why it’s very important that you learn how to keep a new girl interested in you, so that the attraction does not fade. And today’s video I’m gonna offer you some handy dandy tips and tricks that can help you keep a girl interested in you. From buying her gifts to being there for when she needs you, there are some little things that you can do that will make a ginormous difference.
How to keep a new girl interested in you
Make sure to stay healthy
You never know when you are going to meet the love of your life. It could be today, it could be tomorrow or it could be next month! That is why you need to stay on top of your health and take care of yourself. You need to keep going to the gym or playing your favourite sport so that you have a better chance of success when you do meet her. Women love men for all sorts of reasons, but one reason is of course the outside. Stay ripped and she will stay interested in you.
Be a little mysterious
Don’t give everything away on the first date! You want to keep her wanting more and this starts with being a little mysterious. If you told her your whole life story within the first 5 minutes of meeting her then she has nothing to look forward to. Although further down the road in a relationship, women do like it when men open up, at the beginning they want you to be more of an onion and have many layers.
Buy her gifts
Splash the cash! They say you can’t buy a person’s love and while this is true, if she is acting a little distant from you, a gift could be just what the doctor ordered. Women love to be spoiled by the men in their lives!
Don’t be selfish in bed
I think this one is self-explanatory. If you both have a good time, she won’t be going anywhere!
Always be a gentleman
I’m talking about opening doors, pulling out her chair and taking her coat. Chivalry is not dead and it’s up to you to show her that you are a gentleman! It’s something that not every guy has anymore so if you show her that you are a gentleman, she will keep coming back for more.
Challenge her
If she says something that you think is incorrect don’t fight about it. Just challenge her on it. She will realise that you are really clever and also that you are strong enough to have your own thoughts. This is critical when you are in a relationship because you can easily lose yourself. So, this is a great way of making sure this does not happen and also keeping her interested.
Be there for her
Has she had a bad day? Having issues with a friend? Or just not feeling like herself? Make sure that you are there for her when she needs you. She will come to rely on you but also to want to be around you because you truly care about her. If you have the opportunity to be there for her, take it.
Pay her compliments
It’s simple, girls love compliments! They especially love them when they come from a man they are dating. The issue is that guys normally give a lady plenty of compliments at the beginning but then they just start dropping off. So, keep going with them and she will keep being interested in you!
Don’t stop the flirting
Just like the compliments, you need to carry on the flirting as well. Don’t let it drop off once you have been dating for a while because you might find that she is suddenly very bored. Keep it going so that she stays invested in the relationship.
Always make her your priority
Telling a girl how important she is to you and making her your number one priority is sure to keep her around. You still need to have your own life when you do this though and not let your social life slip. Just be around when she needs you and this will show her that you are her priority.
Don’t allow her to take advantage of you
Making her your priority is great but like I said, you need to still have your own life. When you start spending a lot of time with someone, buying them gifts and paying them compliments, you run the risk of them taking advantage of you. She might start to see you as an easy way to get a free meal. You need to make sure this does not happen by getting her to plan the dates sometimes and watching out for if she offers to pay for things. If she does both of these things then it is fine, she is not taking advantage of you. If she is not, then you need to act on it and tell her that you don’t like this side of her.
Continue to surprise her
Don’t just surprise her on the first date! Keep it going throughout the time you both date each other to keep her on her toes! Take her on surprise dates or give her some flowers out of the blue. It will make her smile and when a girl is smiling, she is attracted to you.
Appreciate her
Never take any girl for granted and expect her to sit around waiting for you. She will run a thousand miles and find a new man, it’s just how ladies are. Tell her that you appreciate her and her time whenever you get the chance. She will be grateful to you for telling her and you might even end up as girlfriend and boyfriend.
Ask her about herself
It’s super off putting when you go on a date and a guy just speaks about himself the whole time. A lady wants to be asked about herself and wants you to be interested in what she has to say. After all, you are dating each other, she is not just dating you. So ask some questions about her, her job and her past. She will love it.
Don’t let her always plan dates
Normally women love to be the ones to plan dates, it’s something they are good at. Men can often just turn up and be charming. This is fine for the first few dates but after that you need to step up and organise some dates. Tell her that you will organise the next date and make sure to plan something super romantic. She will be impressed by you.
Open up to her
It can be hard to be vulnerable with someone, especially someone you have just met. When you are trying to get a new girl to be interested in you though, you need to let her get to know you. You could open up about something in your past or something that is going on at work.
Stay in touch with her
You don’t want to just go on a date and then not talk to her again. You need to keep up communication so that she knows you are interested in her and she can grow her attraction towards you. Send her a message in between dates or phone her so that she doesn’t just drop off.
Give her some space
When you first start dating someone and you really like them, you want to spend all your time with them. It’s cute and a fun stage to be in. You need to make sure that you give her some space though so that you can both think about if you really want each other. If you can’t stop thinking about her and she can’t stop thinking about you then it’s a sign that you are supposed to keep dating!