“I can’t stop thinking about her” – Does this sound similar to your situation? If you’re finding yourself unable to stop thinking about someone, then today’s video is perfect for you. We’re going to be discussing some common reasons you’re unable to stop thinking about a woman. So if you’re interested in learning how to stop obsessing over someone then this video will be helpful for you.
Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Her
You’ve met a girl. She’s special. She might even be the prettiest girl you have ever seen and has such a great personality. She literally lights up the room.
Somehow you have managed to land this amazing lady. Your relationship is electric, everything is perfect and you are pretty sure she is the one. Until it all comes to an end.
She’s gone and you are more lost than you have ever been. Over time you recover from the heartbreak but you still can’t stop thinking about her. What should you do?
Today we will be discovering 8 reasons you can’t stop thinking about that special lady plus we have some tips and tricks to help you stop thinking about her.
This video is for guys both in and out of a relationship.
You love her
If you have been in a relationship with a lady for a long time, you have probably developed strong feelings for her. You may potentially even love that person. So if you break up or part way’s it is totally understandable that you will miss her and think about her.
When we are in love with somebody we cannot stop thinking about them. Our brain literally pushes those thoughts to the front of our mind and our brain releases happy hormones. When that person is gone, our brain tries to re-create those hormones. It wants more and so it keeps reminding you about that special lady. If you are experiencing this, take some time to yourself.
Unfortunately, we cannot avoid our problems, we have to face them head-on. So why not spend a night away by yourself. It will give you time to process what has happened, acknowledge it and then move on.
Alternatively, if you have been dating a lovely lady for a while and you can’t get her out of your mind, this could be love.
You are distracting yourself from other areas of your life
We do all sorts of things to distract us from our lives. One of them is dating people or focusing solely on a relationship. We convince ourselves that if this relationship works the rest of our lives will fall into place.
To be honest guys, sometimes this does work. Most of the time though, it’s simply a distraction. We can end up losing the relationship and still having to deal with the areas of our lives we were avoiding.
It’s important to take some time to think carefully about this. Are you trying to avoid the issues you are having with your parents? Are you trying to distract yourself from the horrible job you have? Are you putting a band-aid over hurt from another relationship?
We have all done it but it’s important we deal with our problems head-on. Then we can enter into a healthy relationship.
You’re afraid to lose her
You have found someone that completes you but you are afraid that you might lose her. She’s is everything you have ever dreamed of. It’s understandable that you don’t want to let her go. It’s also great that you are thinking about her. When we like people we should think about them.
If you are thinking about her all the time though because you are afraid to lose her, this could come across as desperation. Our body language often reflects our thoughts. So if you are thinking, “she’s going to realise she can do better” you might find that your body language is also saying this. Meaning the lady of your dreams can tell.
Now, guys, this is when I am going to tell you to believe in yourself. You need to believe that you are good enough because well you are! Anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. If a lady does choose to leave, it just was not meant to be. There are many other ladies in this world that would be interested in you. So trust that she is going to stick around and if she doesn’t it’s time to move on.
You are always on her social media
If you are always checking out her social media, chances are, you are always thinking about her! It’s a classic pattern that so many of us follow. Refreshing the page to see if she has updated it. Checking her stories to see who she is with and what she is doing. Looking through her pictures on Facebook. Is this something you have done guys?
It’s a hard habit to break. If you want to stop thinking about her, stop going on her social media. If you want to keep thinking about her, carry on.
You are afraid of rejection
You have been dating this special lady for a while. You have taken her to some really special places and she has even met your friends. Now you cannot stop thinking about her and you want to ask her to be your girlfriend. You are afraid though that she might reject you.
Maybe she will say, “Oh sorry I just see you as a friend”. That always cuts deep doesn’t it guys. But imagine if…she doesn’t say that. Imagine if she says, “yes I would love to be your girlfriend”. You would be floating on cloud 9.
When you are afraid of rejection, you become nervous around her. She will pick up on this. Instead, just tell her how you are feeling. If she doesn’t want it to go any further, that really sucks. But you will be ok.
The lady is an enigma
You just can’t quite put your finger on it but there is something different about this very special lady. She is mysterious, you can’t figure her out and you feel as if you have so much more to learn about her. She drives you wild and you are constantly thinking about her. Wondering what she is thinking? What she is doing? Guys, you can hardly ever figure this type of lady out. So why bother? Instead give your brain a rest, if you really like her, just roll with everything. If you are unsure or you are the type of person who likes to know everything about someone, then she may not be the lady for you. Instead, find someone who is an open book.
Remember – we are all attracted to different people.
You’re lonely
You might not be able to stop thinking about your special lady because you are lonely. Perhaps she is a past girlfriend or you would like to date her.
It’s important to remember that everyone has been lonely at some point in their life. It’s not always the best time to enter a relationship. Sometimes being lonely means we need something more in our life. Maybe we need to spend more time with our friends or we need to discover a new hobby.
Sometimes it can be deeper like we are having issues at work. Either way, a relationship is not always the answer to loneliness. If it is one of the examples used above, we might need to fix these things first so that we can dive headfirst into a new relationship.
If you think this might be it, try to keep yourself occupied and if she’s still on your mind. Make contact and see how it goes. Who knows, she might be lonely as well.
She’s the one
She might simply, just be the one. Sometimes when someone walks into a room, a spark goes off and you just know ‘she’s the one’. Or you could be in a relationship with her and all of a sudden it comes to you, she’s the one. This is such a great reason for not being able to stop thinking about her. If this is the reason, take your time to progress the relationships and treat that lucky lady like she is a queen every day!
We have covered a whole range of reasons why you can’t stop thinking about her today. Some of them are reasons for guys in relationships or have just left a relationship and others are for guys looking for love. I hope this video helped.