how to get a girl to kiss you

“THIS” Is How To Get A Girl To KISS YOU! Do This And She Will Want To Kiss You

Learn how to get a girl to kiss you! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing kissing. What you can do to improve your chances of getting a woman to kiss you and make the first move.

How To Get A Girl To Kiss You

Guy’s should not always have to make the first move when it comes to kissing. Ladies can and do make the first move all the time. So if you are wondering, how do I get a girl to kiss me? This video is here to help.

Today I will be showing you 9 way’s you can make a girl want to kiss you. Sometimes ladies really want to be the first ones to make the move but they just need to be shown some signs. 

Look the part 

Ladies like it when a man looks the part. If you are going to meet up with the lady make sure you have shaved. You might not know this guy but stubble is really hard against a ladies face. Just seeing it on your face will make her more cautious about kissing you because well it could hurt! It also makes it seem like you haven’t put much effort into your appearance. So make sure to shave before any date or outing with your lady. She will love the thought of your soft face against hers. It will make it much more likely that she will plant a kiss on you. 

You must also dress nicely. It’s understandable if you are on a date that is on a beach or hike that you would be wearing shorts. If you are going out to the movies, going out for dinner or bowling, you should dress nicely. Basically, it’s important to look at the part on your date. This will naturally make you more attractive which means your crush is more likely to lean in and kiss you. 

Brush your teeth 

If you would like a girl to kiss you, keep up your dental hygiene. Guys, girls can pick up on your dental hygiene just from sitting across the table from you. They can smell your breath when they get close to you. If it smells clean, they will be more likely to kiss you. If it smells un-clean they are less likely to want to kiss you and well that’s not what you want. So make sure to brush your teeth, use mouthwash and freshen up your breath with gum. 

Drop some hints 

You get nervous when speaking to a girl you like right? You might wonder does she like me? Does she want me to kiss her? Well, guys, girls think the exact same things. If you want a girl to kiss you, she needs to understand how you feel. You need to make it obvious that you like her so that she’s comfortable enough to lean across the table and kiss you. 

To do this you need to drop some hints. Monitor your body language and make sure it is open and not closed. Move closer to the lady. Touch her arm or shoulder. Maintain eye contact and flirt where appropriate. She will pretty quickly piece together that you like her and she’ll want to kiss you. 

Be in the right environment 

You are less likely to be kissed while mini-golfing than you are at a romantic dinner. If you want the girl to kiss you, you need to make sure you are in the correct environment. It has to scream romance. A candlelit dinner, a picnic on the beach or a romantic walk in the moonlight. These are all very romantic dates. They would naturally lead to a kiss because you are flirting, close to each other and able to maintain eye contact. If you wanted to make it extra special and drop a hint that you like her (which might lead to a kiss) you could take a bunch of roses on your date or a box of chocolates. 

Look at her lips 

This all comes down to body language. You need to send her signs that you are interested. To do this, look at her lips while she is talking. Not all the time, you need to remember to maintain eye contact but every so often let your eyes drift down and she will notice what you are doing. 

You also need to draw attention to your own lips. Ladies are deeply attracted to a man’s lips. There is just something about them. So occasionally lick your lips or leave them slightly parted. Make sure you smile to show them off and if you are both really close and flirting, you could bite the side of your lip. 

The girl simply will not be able to resist your lips and will be leaning in to kiss you. 

Pay attention 

If you would like a girl to want to kiss you, she needs to feel important to you. She needs to feel like she has your full attention. It can be easy to lose concentration or attention when you are in a busy restaurant. You can find your eyes darting all over the room. This is really off-putting. It makes the other person think ‘why am I even here? So guys, make sure to give her your full attention. Nod when she speaks and relay things she has said to you so that she knows you were listening. 

If she mentions that she has a brother for example bring it up later by saying, “so how old is your brother?”

This will make her feel like the only girl in the room and she is much more likely to kiss you. 

Touch her face 

Now, guys, you can only do this when it is appropriate. This means you should have been dating a while before you jump to this. Maybe you have been on three dates and flirting quite a lot, well then it might feel natural to start touching each other. If you are in a private area and some flirting is going on, you could pull her face gently towards you. Or just make eye contact and touch her face gently. She might lean in then and kiss you. Simply because she can longer resist you.

Remember though, if she does not want to kiss you, don’t force it. If it feels right naturally, go for it.


Ladies simply love to be complimented. They really do! So give your girl some genuine compliments so that she can gain some confidence around you. We touched on this earlier, if you are nervous, so is she. Try and make it easier on her by making her feel more comfortable around you and a little braver! 

Compliments like I love your hair or you look so pretty tonight are all great. Just make sure they are genuine compliments and it will make her feel a lot better.

Don’t overthink it 

We can all overthink things from time to time, it’s normal. Normally though, if we overthink things, it makes us more nervous and less natural. You want to be as natural as possible around the girl you like. If you are giving off nervous energy she might think that you actually don’t like her.  It could even make her too nervous to kiss you so you need to chill.

The best way to kill overthinking is to formulate a plan. Have a strategy in place. Think about the points mentioned above and think about some way’s you can work them in. Also, make sure to plan a date that’s appropriate for the outcome you would like. 

Bonus point – be confident 

Guys, if you want a lady to kiss you, you need to be confident. Your confidence will radiate around the room and the lady will think, “if he is confident then I should be as well”. It will encourage her to take the leap and kiss you! If you create the right environment with things you say and through your body language, it’s failproof. 

If you take these points on board guys, the girl you like, will want to kiss you in no time. 

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