We all know that women are overly complicated when it comes to their feelings and guys that they like. Trying to navigate your way through the dating world can be stressful enough, never mind trying to guess if feelings are reciprocated or not.
Have you ever had feelings for a girl but been confused about if she likes you back? Or maybe her behavior has changed, and you don’t know what it means?
Well, fear not, for we have done some research and discovered some things women do when they’re around a guy that they like, so you can look out for the signs and know exactly where you stand.
Settle down, listen up and let’s get into it.
Is she obsessed with you?
She increases her communication
When a girl has feelings for you and starts to feel comfortable around you, the way that she communicates with you will slowly increase over time.
Her text messages could get longer, she could call you more frequently, or she could ask to see you more often.
This is a great sign because it means she enjoys your company and she wants to spend as much time as possible with you. Even if it’s not doing something productive or fun and just ends up being spending time in each other’s company.
You notice your phone pinging more often as the text messages come through faster and faster, even if the conversation is just a generic ‘hey, how was your day?.’
This shows that she holds communicating with you in high regard. She will more than likely stop what she’s doing to reply to you regardless of how busy she is.
She closes in on personal space
Everyone has their own level of personal space, and a set of boundaries they put in place to help themselves and everyone around them remain comfortable in any given situation.
When a girl starts to get feelings for you and becomes more and more obsessed with you, the personal space bubble that she has originally created will slowly start to diminish. Eventually it pops and she wants to be as close to you as possible.
You may notice that she brushes against your shoulder as you’re walking together. She’s trying to walk as close to you as possible so that she can feel your skin on hers.
When you’re sitting beside each other she may shuffle until she is practically sitting on your knee, maybe she even tries to sit on your knee, although girls will tend to wait until they have permission to physically touch you in this way.
You will notice she frequently comes into your personal space bubble. You can expect her to linger as he passes you something. Maybe she adjusts your hair when a strand is out of place. Subtle right? But oh, so powerful
Relaxed body language
You can tell a lot about what a person is thinking by looking at their body language.
Although it might sound very hard and complex, it’s actually rather simple to figure out the basics of any human. For instance, if you’re talking to someone and their arms are crossed over their chest, this shows that they are slightly guarded and don’t feel 100% comfortable, either with you or the conversation that is going on.
When a girl likes you, her body language will be a lot more open and easy to read. She will physically relax her shoulders when she is conversing with you. Her demeanor will completely change, and she will be more open to the topic of conversation.
You should also notice that she will position her body in a certain way to subconsciously let you know that you have her undivided attention. For example, if you’re sitting facing each other, her knees and feet will point towards you. If you’re sitting beside each other then her knees will lean towards you, and maybe even touch yours. This is showing that she doesn’t mind closing the gap between the two of you. She wants to be as close to you as she can get.
Another thing, when a woman is obsessed with you she will find any excuse to touch you whenever she can – not in a perverted way. She will laugh at anything you say and then touch your arm which is a massive green flag that she is into you. She could be sat beside you and brush her hand by your thigh, hoping you’ll get the hint and grab her hand to hold or put on your leg.
Women are massively emotionally driven when they have feelings for someone. So, even the littlest touch or skin on skin contact is a big deal for them.
You are her go to
We all know that girls love to gossip and talk about things in a very dramatic way. The more a girl starts to like you, the more she will start to talk to you or rant to you about things going on in her life.
This type of behavior is more than often saved for her best friend, but as her feelings develop for you you will slowly become her go to person.
What is a go to person? Well, it’s someone that you instantly want to speak to as soon as something good or bad happens in your life. This could be as minor as not passing a test in school, or as traumatic as a death in the family.
Your go to person has the ability to make you feel better in any given situation and is held in such high regard.
Although you won’t replace her best friend, because a girl always needs her best friend, she will bring you up to the same level as her, the more her feelings start to develop for you.
They always say your partner should be your best friend, and this is the perfect example of her moving you into that partner position. So this explains why sometimes you feel confused when a girl may emotionally offload onto you. You are left thinking ‘Does Becki like me? She just told me the ins and outs of her workplace drama, or maybe she sees me as a good friend?’
She is snap happy
Women love to take pictures of anything and everything that happens in their life. Although some people may think this is strange and often find it confusing when a woman wants to take a picture of the food on her plate before she eats, it’s more of a subconscious thing for women to take pictures so that they have memories to look back on.
When a woman develops feelings for you, you will notice that she starts to take pictures of you or with you more often. This is so she can look back at them and smile when she’s not around you and misses you.
It’s also a good way for her to show these on social media to let people know that you have her attention, and that she is having a great time when she’s with you. Everyone loves a selfie even if you don’t like to admit it. When a girl that you like starts to take pictures with you there’s no denying that that is because she has a crush on you.
Hope you’ve got your smile ready boys, snap happy is about to happen! So, say cheese!
She shares her future plans
Some women like to plan ahead for the future, some have started planning this from a very young age. Things like marriage, having kids and how many of them, buying their dream house and getting their dream career.
When a woman starts to develop feelings for you she will start to include you in these plans subconsciously, she will mention her plans to you and get your view of them.
Don’t panic when she starts talking about marriage and kids. She’s not expecting you to propose the very next day. She’s just letting you know that she now sees a future with you and is talking about it to gauge your reaction to see if you feel the same way and can share the same life goals.
It’s very important to have conversations about whether or not you want kids, if so how many, the type of house that you would like to grow old in, if you want to get married, anything in your future that you do or do not want to achieve.
There you have it, some signs that show a girl is obsessed with you and has feelings for you.
Hopefully, this will help you navigate your way through the dating scene and bag a babe for the win!