Learn how to get women to admire and respect you. What actually matters when it comes to earning this respect from the people around you in your life?
Respect is key in any relationship and gaining the respect of the important lady in your life makes for a happier, deeper, and more meaningful relationship.
In today’s video you will learn exactly how to become the guy that women respect. And as said before, respect is a super important component in any relationship. A relationship without respect is likely to fail or become very toxic. Being a man that women respect might sound complicated but it’s actually way easier than you think.
How to get women to respect you
You are Confident
Girls love a man that is confident and sure of himself.
Having confidence is something that many of us have to learn, it’s a way of thinking and carrying yourself.
Being confident in your beliefs and your values, without competing with others.
In the mind of a woman, a confident man is a strong man and women really respect this.
When a guy is confident he exudes a positive kind of energy, which women find incredibly attractive (just so long as it doesn’t morph into arrogance, which is definitely not attractive).
You are Dedicated to What You Do
Whether it’s to your job, your hobbies or to your friends, dedication is really attractive to girls.
It shows them that you can stick at something, even when the tough get going. You don’t give up easily and you won’t give up on them.
Dedication is a really attractive quality because it shows a willingness and a desire to commit – something which women REALLY value and respect.
You’re Not Too Passive
There’s a misconception that women desire a man who will give them everything they want, never question them and always agree with them…but this isn’t quite true.
Women don’t want or need you to be their Yes-man! Of course, sometimes they want you to agree with them, but they also find it incredibly sexy when you stay true to your own beliefs and values.
Women want to know that you have a back-bone and that you’re willing to take charge.
Girls respect guys who are authentic and know how to say no!
You Have a Good Sense of Humor
Being able to laugh and have fun is super important to having a happy, healthy and fulfilled relationship.
Having a good sense of humor makes you more approachable, more likeable and makes women feel more comfortable around you.
In fact, 81% of women report that a good sense of humor is the most important quality in a partner!
Girls respect guys who can make them laugh, those around them laugh and laugh at themselves too!
You’re Trustworthy
Just as respect is a key part of any relationship, so is trust, and there is no respect without trust.
A woman NEEDS to be able to trust you, if she can’t trust you she won’t respect you.
If a girl can trust you she can depend and rely on you, this makes for a more peaceful and harmonious relationship.
Make sure you show your girl that she can trust you, not just through your words but also through your actions and behavior.
Trust almost always guarantees respect.
You Show Maturity
Being mature is almost sure to gain a woman’s respect.
A girl doesn’t want to feel like she’s dating a grown-up child – that’s a big turn off!
She wants to know that she is with a MAN and part of that is showing her that you are emotionally and mentally mature.
Having maturity means that you can communicate well – and like an adult – you are able to control and manage your emotions and respond appropriately in confrontations and other emotionally demanding situations.
Maturity doesn’t mean you’re boring or don’t know how to have fun, it simply means that you are able to think, reason and respond to your girl like an adult.
Women really respect maturity in men and find it very attractive.
You’re a Hard Worker
There’s something about a man who is a hard worker which really gets women going.
Hard work shows discipline; similar to dedication, it shows that you don’t give up easily.
You put in maximum effort and apply yourself to get the best results in what you do.
Being a hard worker shows strength and character, it shows girls that you’re not afraid of a challenge. This is sure to earn a girl’s respect and admiration.
You are Intellectually Stimulating
Women like a man who is interesting and engaging.
Being able to hold a deeper and more meaningful conversation with a girl is sure to earn her respect.
You don’t have to be super intelligent or educated to do this, simply engage in interesting and insightful conversations which get you both thinking.
Find a passion that you both share and discuss it together.
Women are very social beings and conversations are important to them, so making these conversations engaging is sure to win them over.
You have Integrity
Having integrity is a really admirable quality in anyone, but especially in a potential romantic interest.
Having integrity means you have strong morals and ethics, you act with dignity, humility, honor and compassion.
Your integrity will be evident in the way that you conduct yourself and how you treat others.
Be a man of your word and act in a way that is inspiring to others. Don’t compromise on your values or morals.
Having real integrity is a sure-fire way to gain a woman’s respect.
You are Compassionate
Being able to show compassion for others is something that pretty much every woman finds sexy.
Having a kind, caring and loving attitude to those around you shows a girl the type of man that you are.
If you actively demonstrate compassion to strangers this shows that you have a good heart.
Women like men to be in touch with their emotions, this does NOT mean that you are ‘less manly,’ it simply shows that you are not selfish and care about those around you. Qualities which are very desirable for women.
You can Say Sorry
No one really likes saying sorry. But…if you want a woman to respect and admire you, then being able to admit your wrong doings and apologise will serve you well.
Admitting fault and taking responsibility for your mishaps takes a lot of humility and it’s often something a lot of us struggle with (women included!)
Nonetheless, being able to say sorry is really attractive and shows girls that you are able to squash your pride when you’ve upset them, which in turn, will earn you their respect.
You’re a Good Listener
It is so important to women that they feel heard and understood, so, if you want a woman to truly respect you, you have to listen to her!
We know that sometimes women can talk A LOT, but if she’s speaking to you that likely means she trusts you enough to open up to you.
Lend her a listening ear and be attentive to what she’s saying (women can tell when you’re not really listening).
Most times, all women want is to share whatever is on their mind with someone, they may not necessarily be looking for advice or solutions, simply being there to listen and support is enough!
You have Self-Respect
You may have heard it before, but for others to respect you, you have to first respect yourself.
Self-respect means that you know your worth and value and you don’t look to others for this validation.
Having self-respect also means you have full confidence in and stand for your beliefs and values.
You accept yourself for who you are, both your strengths and weaknesses and have a positive regard for yourself.
Self-respect and self-esteem go hand in hand, without self-respect you are very unlikely to have a good self-esteem, which can negatively impact a relationship.
Self-respect helps you to set healthy boundaries which makes you a better and more understanding partner. So, to win the respect of your dream girl, make sure that first you love and respect yourself.
We hope you found today’s video helpful and insightful! Becoming the man that girls respect isn’t too hard when you have the right tools.