What women want in a man! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing some of the things girls wish men would do more! We will be taking a look at 22 small gestures that women love, these are tiny things you could do more often that will impress women and increase attraction – not bad right?
There are things that girls really want men to do more of. And sadly girls don’t always communicate this with the guys in their lives and men are not mind readers. So girls just continue to get more annoyed until they explode and it all ends in a disagreement.
Sometimes men do one of these things once but then they forget to do it again and it really drives girls crazy when men do not do these things and in the worst case scenario it can lead to a breakup.
This is why it’s easier for men to just learn what these things are so that they can do them and keep their ladies happy.
But how do you find out what these things are? That’s where I come in! In today’s video I’m going to tell you about the things that in girls eyes, men do not do enough of, so that you can be the dream man for any lady who is lucky enough to have you.
What women want in a man
Remember dates and events that are important to them
Remembering their birthday is a must but it’s a little more than that, they want you to remember work events they have coming up or their best friend’s birthday.
Remembering dates and events that mean a lot to them shows them that you care about them.
Showing affection in public
Don’t just show her affection at home or in the bedroom, show in public as well. Girls love it when men hold their hands or put their arm around them when they are in public. It’s a nice thing to do.
Putting down the toilet seat
Honestly guys, it takes one minute and it’s so easy! Girls hate walking into bathrooms when the toilet seat is still up.
Dressing up for her
Make an effort to dress up when you go on a date with a girl or just when you are both doing something together. If you struggle to pick something to wear, ask her! She will love that you asked her and will have fun picking you out an outfit.
Opening doors for her
Opening a car door or the door to a restaurant is a great way to show a lady how much of a gentleman you are.
Dancing
Girls want a man that they can dance with. Around the house, in a club or on a dance floor. You don’t have to be good, you just have to be willing to do it with them and make fun of yourself a little. Girls find it so fun when they can dance with a man.
Having an active lifestyle
Girls love it when a man looks after himself.
One way to do this is by maintaining an active lifestyle. Going to the gym, walking every day, or playing your favorite sports are all great ways to stay fit.
Keeping active is also a positive thing for your mental health and wellbeing.
Protecting her
From birth, most girls have had a man who has protected them, their dad. They don’t want you to be their dad, that would be strange but she does want you to protect her.
She wants you to look after her in large crowds and look after her when she is low.
Doing something special for no reason
Don’t wait for an anniversary or a birthday to do something special, do it for no reason.
Turn up in your car and deliver a bunch of flowers to her, just because! Girls love romance and gestures like this.
Taking an interest in her passions and hobbies
You both have your own passions and hobbies that you love.
She will be paying attention to yours and even getting involved where she can. You need to do the same, take an active interest. Girls really want men to do this more.
Cooking for her
Girls really love it when they can put their feet up while their man cooks for them. There is something so sexy about a man who cooks, women really rate it as a quality they look for in a partner.
Sticking to your word
This one is really simple, if you say you are going to do something, then do it!
Spending time with her friends
Yes, they can be loud and sometimes even annoying, but they are her friends, and they mean a lot to her. You need to accept this and spend time with them.
Next time she asks if you would like to meet them for a drink, simply say yes. She will be so happy.
Writing her a love poem
It’s a little soppy but it is also so romantic. Who writes poems anymore? Only poets probably! Which girls absolutely love by the way.
Only someone who really likes her would write her a poem. Why not show her how much she means to you?
Being a good listener
We all need someone who takes the time and has the patience to listen to what we have to say.
Sometimes it might be problems, or it could simply be about our day. We want someone who is going to listen intently to what we have to say and focus on us for that moment.
Do this more for her and she will feel really valued by you.
Being vulnerable with her
Men can be very good at keeping their feelings to themselves and not opening up.
They might think of it as a sign of weakness or just have been raised this way. Girls are very emotional creatures, and they can easily get vulnerable with you.
Which is why they want you to do the same. If you can’t be vulnerable with her then you won’t be close, and your bond won’t be as strong.
Open up to her and trust that she will love you regardless.
Taking her shopping
They say diamonds are a girl’s best friend, but I think that is a little wrong.
Shopping is a girl’s best friend. She doesn’t always want to go shopping with her friends and sisters, sometimes she wants to go with you.
Even though for most men, shopping is their idea of hell, it would mean so much to her if you went with her. If you want some serious brownie points, take her shopping.
Compromising
Every great relationship takes a lot of compromises.
You have found a lady that you love, who is similar to you and seems to understand you.
That’s not enough though, she is not always going to agree with everything you think and do. This is one of the biggest pitfalls in any relationship.
Some people believe that you must agree with everything but it’s not about what you agree on or with, it’s about how you both compromise.
Make sure you both compromise whenever you have a disagreement. One of you should not win every time.
Spending time with her family
She loves spending time with your family, she learns more about you every time she does.
She wants you to spend time with her family though as well.
It’s important to her that you like her family, and you bond with them. They are the most important thing to her and so obviously it would mean a lot to her if you spent time with them.
Being good with little kids
If a girl is in a relationship with you she probably hopes that one day you will get married and have children.
There is nothing more attractive to a girl than when she sees her man engaging with children. Her motherly instincts immediately come out and she starts to see what you would be like as a dad.
Making her laugh
It’s so simple but it means so much.
She wants you to make her laugh all the time. We all take life so seriously sometimes, if you can’t laugh with your partner then who can you laugh with?
Make her laugh as often as you can!
Being her biggest cheerleader
She wants you to always be proud of her and tell her to just go for it. Whether it’s her career, a hobby or a sport that she loves, she wants you to cheer her along. She will do the same for you and will most definitely be your biggest cheerleader.
You can show her that you are cheering her on by going to any important events and asking her how things are going.
Never giving up on her
A girl really wants a guy who is dependable. Someone who won’t simply give up on her when times get tough.
Relationships are at times really difficult and go through ups and downs.
It’s important that you can ride the waves with her and not just run as soon as it gets tricky.