Learn how to re-attract your ex back – fast! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing how you can re-attract your ex girlfriend after a breakup.
You had a magical relationship and I’m talking about romantic dinner dates and meeting the family kind of magic, then all of a sudden she’s just gone cold and is asked to put an end to the relationship.
You are heartbroken and confused both of which are understandable. You will go through the sad stage and then the angry stage or vice versa. Finally you land on the “I want her back” stage. You are not ready to just give up on her and you want the magical relationship you once had to come back.
Now, you just need to know how to reattract your ex back quickly and luckily this is well just the video for you. I will be sharing some tips and tricks that will have your ex running back to you in no time.
How to re-attract your ex back fast
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Be a different person
You might know the exact reasons that your lady broke up with you or you might have been left in the dark by her. Either way one of the reasons she may have broken up with you is because of the person you were when you were together.
For example when you were together you could have been really jealous because she had a best friend who was a guy. This jealousy may have looked like controlling how she dressed or who she saw. This can look quite ugly to a partner and she might have grown tired of this and broken things off.
You won’t win her back unless you change this part of yourself. Show her that you are a different person than the one she broke up with. Now I am not suggesting that you change everything about yourself because the person you are with should love you for who you are but if there was something negative that she really didn’t like, work on it while trying to win her back.
Be emotionally stronger than she is
Women are super emotional beings and even if she broke up with you, she would have felt a lot of emotion. She might have stayed in bed for a few days and watched some sad movies. She will be missing you even if she broke up with you. You knew her very well and she understood
Make her smile
Don’t be too serious, use humour to make her laugh and smile when she is around you. You don’t want to be negative when you are trying to win her back, you want to be positive and a great way to do this is to make sure you are making her smile. Smiling and laughing also releases feel good hormones which make you want to keep being around the person that is making you feel that way. So you being funny could lead to her coming back.
Staying fit and active is important. Not only for your physical and mental health but also because it will impress your ex. If you look good, you will feel good. There are so many ways to stay fit and you can make it fun. You could join a sports team, go to the gym or do your favourite form of exercise.
Give her time to forgive your past mistakes
You might believe that you did nothing wrong or she might have told you what you did. Either way you need to acknowledge the mistake. In her eyes you have made a mistake or a few mistakes. You need to respect her need for space and give her the time to forgive your past mistakes. She needs to trust you fully before she will even think about getting back together with you. Give her a month of time before you approach her again, this will give her time to think about your mistake and start to forgive you for it.
Don’t think of other guys as competition
Jealousy is never a good look especially when you are trying to win someone back. Your ex might have other guys in her life, they could be her friends or she might be dating again. Spending time worrying about these other guys is a waste, you could instead be investing your time into winning her back. You want to be the best version of yourself when you are re-attracting her.
Don’t constantly message her
It’s important to give her space so that she can come back to you on her own terms. That means not messaging her all the time and leaving some time after the break up for things to settle down. Make sure to message her so that she knows you are still around but don’t go over the top with your messages. When you do message her, keep it casual and send open ended language. If you message her and she does not reply then do not send another message until she does so that you don’t look desperate.
Ask her on a date
Once she is back talking to you and showing interest in you again, you can ask her on a date. You need to bring back the passion and reignite the fire. This means you need to plan a super romantic date! Something intimate like dinner in a candle lit restaurant or a sunset picnic on the beach. Flirt with her to help increase the attraction between you both and bring back the electric energy that you would have had at the start of the relationship. Show her that you can pull out all the stops.
Meet new people
While you are trying to re-attract her you need to be prepared for the fact that she might not come back. She might move on and decide she doesn’t want to continue the relationship. In case this happens it is important that you meet new people. Start dating other ladies and keep it casual with them. Make sure you also spend lots of time with your own friends to keep your mind busy.
Have your own life
You need to work on yourself and make sure that you are the best version of yourself. Focus on your goals, find a hobby and spend lots of time with your friends. Doing all of these things will make you more attractive to your ex because you will literally be the best version of yourself. A man that is motivated, productive and taking care of his personal appearance is simply irresistible.
Don’t try to hard
You should of course put some effort into trying to win her back by doing some of the things I have mentioned throughout this video. Just don’t try too hard because it will come off as desperate and clingy. This means not messaging her all the time. You should never bend over backwards for her or beg for her back. Just be yourself, show her that you are sorry and if that is not enough then you know she is not the person for you.
Finally, if you want to win her back, you need to say sorry. Even if you don’t know what you have done wrong, you need to say sorry if she was the one who left you. Being the bigger man and acknowledging your mistakes will really impress her and she will respect you a lot more for it. You should say something like “I am really sorry for what I did while we were in a relationship, I have thought about my behaviour and I have worked on myself. I promise to never do that again and if you give me a chance I will be the best partner.” Then explain exactly how you will change for example “I will work on my jealousy issues and will make sure I don’t control your actions because of my jealousy anymore”. She will feel seen and understood when you say these things to her. You will show her how great you are and she will want you back as quickly as possible.