Oftentimes in life, men have desired to make women obsessed with them. To achieve this, they do who knows what, but still fail.
Well, we are back with another video regarding ultimate solutions to this dilemma.
Most guys concentrate so heavily on winning a woman over that they overlook the fact that women perceive things differently than men.
Likewise, you must discover what compels her if you want her to have feelings for you.
To successfully do this, you must first understand that this is about her and not you. A rather selfless approach would come in handy.
Consider what she desires from you and not what you would like from her.
You’ll have a greater understanding about what you need to do to make a woman obsessed with you once you’ve established this emotional connection of understanding.
How to make her obsess over you
Establish yourself as high value
Men mostly believe that if they flaunt their wealth and luxuries, be it their Mercedes or Rolex watch, women will like them more.
Yes, I’m not going to lie to you, sometimes this does catch a girl’s attention, but not always, and certainly not often the right type of woman you’d want a relationship with!!
Hence, if you want to be unique and stick out from the “typical men crowd”, do not show off. Instead, try taking a more holistic approach.
Share your opinions, visions, and goals with her.
Consider Steve Jobs, the man who created Apple. He had a clear goal. He frequently discussed products he wished to create or items he saw existing in the future. Then he made that happen! Although he was very wealthy, he still shared his plans for Apple with others.
These days, women find this kind of perseverance and hard work attractive and rather seductive too.
Therefore, if you want a woman to be obsessed with you, talk about your goals for the future and how you intend to achieve them.
Live a life you can be thrilled of rather than just bragging about your expensive sports car or your high school accomplishments.
You should put your efforts into making a life you’re proud of before you meet a woman and strive to make her become obsessed with you.
Create an air of mystery
Being enigmatic and mysterious are traits that always keep a woman on edge.
Thus, following this tactic and withholding some information could be an effective way to make a woman obsessed with you.
Things can quickly become monotonous when men overshare about themselves to women.
It’s fun to continue discovering new things about your partner as you go along if you intend to be in a committed long-term relationship.
She continues to be drawn to you, but there will always be room for some fascination and suspense. She’ll begin to ponder what else you have to offer.
You could share a part of something with her while keeping the other part to yourself. Like say: “Yeah, I do work in marketing,” without revealing to her that you are the owner of your own business. Then you can casually mention it into a discussion a few days later. And voila!
Get out of the friend-zone
Now, by this, I certainly do not mean, you should quit talking to her, but you should stop behaving like you are her friend.
Make this obvious if you want her to be more than just a friend. Or else, it is the dreaded “friend-zone” for you!!
Change your body language, start texting her after you see her, and start engaging with her before you ask her out on a date.
If you and her have been friends for a while, she will probably be shocked. However, she will then begin to consider her feelings for you as well.
Maybe, she will finally realise how wonderful it would be for the both of you if she said yes.
Give her a little push
The fact is that women sometimes require a little nudging to realize they like you.
Sometimes they are so preoccupied with other things that they might not get the time to notice you like them.
So, you might need to flirt with a friend to make them realise what they are missing out on.
It’s a dangerous move that occasionally may not pay off, but it all depends on how you play it out!!
Firstly, try not to be too unscrupulous or overly flirtatious. Even if you’re just attempting to make a good impression on her, you should still act gentlemanly.
Second and most important, choose a close friend instead of a best friend. Now, the ideal method to flirt with someone is to speak to them frequently and make them laugh.
Refrain from touching or engaging in physical flirtation because doing so will make the woman you like run away as she would get the wrong impression.
When you shift the focus of your attention towards her friend, this makes her realise: “Why is he not giving me attention. I would love it if he would. Maybe I like him. How could he ignore me like this?” After that, she might start fretting over you, and you might then realise that she is actually making an effort to be with you.
Live a life you love
Your existences converge into one another when you are in a relationship, making the risk of suffocating one another more certain. Because of this, you both need to lead fulfilling lives apart from your potential relationship. Know your boundaries and personal space.
Having a life, you enjoy will not only force you to spend time apart, but it will also give the impression that you are of great importance to a woman.
“What has he accomplished?” is what the lady will be asking herself as she begins to consider her feelings for you or “Has he got an enjoyable life?” This is very appealing and gives the woman confidence in the guy’s ability to handle the future.
Play hard to get
Women in general receive a lot of attention from guys who praise them or frequently ask them out on dates. Girls enjoy the focus because it is pleasing. But there is a limit. And as time goes on, they’ve grown accustomed to it and expect it of men as well.
They consequently become interested when they encounter a man who does not give them this kind of attention and handles them like they would treat anyone else.
This is because they love getting recognition. They have grown used to receiving it.
However, when they run out, they start to crave it, making it difficult to obtain more. They, therefore, exert more effort to get your focus and are fixated on finding how to get it.
Playing hard to get is simple: Just avoid putting pressure on them or showering them with your sweet words. Instead, simply speak to them in the same manner as you would with anyone else and give them the same level of priority.
Humor your way into her heart
When a man makes a girl laugh, they adore it. And the reason why is that it offers them a taste of what dating the man would be like. It’s not enjoyable if a man is always serious.
She will become fixated on you if you make her giggle with your sharp sense of humor because she desires that for the future. “Is he always this funny?” she will wonder. In no time, she will manifest being “your girl”.
A woman desires a companion with whom she can joke around and enjoy herself.
So, if humor is an area you feel confident in, don’t be afraid to show this side of yourself.
Any man can learn how to woo a woman. Simply learn to be less self-absorbed and pay more attention to what the girl herself desires in a man. That’s the trick: if you give her what she desires, she’ll start being obsessed with you in no time!!