Imagine if you could seduce a woman without even saying a word. For some guys, this would be the dream.
Well, you don’t have to imagine it, it is possible. That does not mean that it’s all plain sailing. You need to put some work in to make sure that you do win her over.
Now words are incredibly important and so is communication, but we are all attracted to more than just words, right? There are plenty of non-verbal cues and actions that can attract a woman to a man.
I’m going to tell you about them so that you can start implementing them into your everyday life. And if you can do this successfully you will start finding that you can successfully seduce a woman without even saying hello.
Seduce a woman without words
Get your life together
I have already mentioned that this will not be plain sailing. Although seducing a woman without words might sound amazing, it still takes work. This is probably the most important step but also the one that will take the most work.
Women are attracted to men who have their life together or appear to! They want a man who has a job that he enjoys, has hobbies and interests, friends and who also looks after himself.
If you have all of these things, you will have a desirable life and she will want to be a part of it.
Smile
Smiling is necessary if you want to seduce a woman. A smile shows that you are enjoying yourself and your company.
It can show the other person that you are listening to what they have to say, and that you are interested in what they are saying.
Smiling can help create chemistry between you and another person.
It is positive body language, and it is something women look for when they are talking to a man.
Sometimes it is easy to forget to smile especially when you are listening carefully, so it’s important that when you are ready to seduce a woman, you remember to smile!
Be vulnerable
Women like it when men are vulnerable in front of them, and it helps you both build a deeper connection.
When you think of being vulnerable you probably think of verbal cues like talking about something that is happening in your life. This is certainly part of being vulnerable, but you can also be vulnerable without saying a word.
When the other person is being vulnerable you could nod or hold their hand to show that you are supporting them.
You could show them through your body language that you also have fears. Perhaps the most vulnerable thing you could do is cry in front of them. These non-verbal cues show them that you can be vulnerable.
Upgrade your wardrobe
What you wear says so much about you.
If you are wearing overly baggy clothes that are not freshly washed or ironed, a woman might pre-judge you as a person who really does not seem to care or think much about themself.
If you are very stylish and your clothes look very clean, then you might be judged as someone who is confident.
So, if you want to start seducing women without saying a word, it is worth giving your wardrobe an upgrade and asking yourself, what do these clothes say about me? Remember that you want to be putting your best foot forward.
Turn off your phone
When you turn off your phone in front of a woman you are signaling that she has all your attention. It shows that you are putting her before anything else and that you will listen to what she has to say.
Basically, you are saying, I will give you my full attention, which is so rare now. If you didn’t want to turn your phone off, then turning it on silent also has a similar effect.
Lick and touch your lips
If you want to seduce a woman, you probably want her to kiss you at some point.
To do this without words you need to draw attention to your lips. This subconsciously makes her think about kissing you.
You can draw attention to your lips by licking and touching them while she is talking to you and looking at you.
Take up space
The more space you take up the more confident you will appear.
As an example, imagine you are on a date with a woman, and you are both sitting in a booth. She is sitting on one side, and you are on the other. If you spread out on your side and put your arm up on the side, then to her you will appear more confident and more protective.
These are things that women look for in a man and make her like him.
Stand your ground
Don’t let her or anyone else push you around. It’s important that you stand your ground and show her that you have your own opinion.
You do not need to be rude or loud when you do this. It could be something that she says that you don’t quite agree with. You can reply and say, “respectfully I don’t agree” and then tell her your point.
Listen to what she has to say but don’t be afraid to offer your own opinion, especially if it is about something that you really believe in.
Make eye contact with her
Don’t forget to actually make eye contact with her. Looking at her shows that you are interested in her and listening to her.
Eye contact can also be highly seductive when used correctly.
You can look at her in a flirty way while she is saying something or hold eye contact with her as you move in closer. Eye contact is a terrific way to seduce a woman without words.
Walk with confidence
When you are walking away from a woman after a date you might think that the date is over. She will be watching you walk away though and she can tell a lot from the way you walk.
Make sure that you are walking with confidence.
Walk in big strides, with your back straight, neck up and shoulders back. Don’t avert your eyes downwards, look straight ahead and gently swing your arms. This will show her that you walk with confidence.
Dress smartly
Once you have upgraded your wardrobe, use the things in it wisely and dress smartly when you go on a date.
Make sure that everything is freshly washed, that you have clean shoes on and that your basic personal hygiene is good. This means making sure you have shaved, if you have a beard ensuring it is well groomed, that your hair is clean and smells nice, and also that you have deodorant and aftershave on.
All of these things will help ensure that when you go on your date, you are putting your best self forward and she is sure to be impressed.
Show social proof
Use your social media to post the things you have been up to.
Women always check a man’s social media when they are dating him. So, keep yours updated with pictures of what you get up to especially when you are spending time with friends.
A woman wants to gain a full picture of who you are when you are not around her which is why your social media will interest her so much.
Have a signature scent
Our memory is often triggered by scent.
Have you ever walked down the street and when someone has walked past, smelt their perfume, and thought of someone you used to date?
Having a distinctive signature scent is a great way to trigger this memory in any woman’s mind that you date.
If you have struggled to identify a signature scent that suits you, ask a shop assistant to help you find one.
We often think that a scent is just a scent but actually we all have ones that do and do not suit us. So, it is better to ask for expert help.
Once you have your scent sorted, you will be ready to seduce a woman without saying a word.