If men could read girls’ minds, dating would be a whole lot easier. Girls can be so confusing.
Men are blunt and say what they are thinking. Girls are ruled by emotion and often hide how they are really feeling or what they really want.
This means that guys need to try and guess what girls want. It can be frustrating and end in a girl leaving a guy because she does not feel her needs are being met. If you can get into the mind of a girl and understand some of the things she might want, it will make your dating life a whole lot easier!
17 things girls want you to do but will never tell you!
Send her nice texts
Girls love to receive nice texts from a guy but they don’t want to tell him to send them. They want him to send them if he wants to.
It could be anything from a sweet good morning text to a good luck text before she goes to bed.
She will be blown away that you are so thoughtful and it only takes a few minutes out of your day.
Take nice pictures of you both
This really is something that girls really want you to do. They love to have pictures with the special guy in their life so that they can plaster them on social media.
Even if you don’t feel like it or you hate taking pictures just agree to having them taken because it really will make her so happy.
If you wanted to take this a step further and get a heap of brownie points, take a picture of you both and then get it framed for her. She will be so happy.
Surprise her
I bet you can’t find a girl that does not like surprises. Every girl loves it when a guy surprises her. She obviously doesn’t want to have to tell you to surprise her otherwise it would not be a surprise at all!
It does not need to be a big surprise to keep her happy. It could be something as small as bringing home her favorite chocolate bar.
In fact, these often mean more than the big surprises do. It shows that you know her and what she likes. Don’t wait until it’s too late, keep up the surprises!
Cook for her
Even if she does most of the cooking, you can cook for her as well. You could surprise her by making her favorite dinner when she comes home after a long day at work.
This is something she would really like you to do but does not want to nag you to do.
Give her really long hugs
Girls love physical contact, and they want a guy who doesn’t mind it.
They also like receiving long hugs for no reason. It might be because you are leaving to go to work or just because she looks a little down.
She will really appreciate all of the hugs that you give her and it will make her feel loved and safe.
Fit into her family
This is important to a girl. She does not want to feel as though she has to pick between you and her family.
She wants to see that you are putting in an effort to get on with them and also fit in with them.
If the relationship was to get more serious, it is even more important that you get on with them. Even if it is difficult, she just wants to see that you are making an effort with them.
Laugh at her jokes
If a girl is making jokes around you, it is because she wants to make you laugh.
Girls don’t just make jokes to a guy they are interested in for fun, they do it because they want to impress you.
If you don’t laugh she will probably think that you do not find her funny and she might even think that you are not very interested in her when you actually are.
Even though you might not share the same sense of humor you can probably find something funny from what she is saying.
Pay her compliments
Every girl and guy likes it when someone pays them a compliment. Although you might date a lot when you first start to see them, over time the compliments can become less frequent. You start taking the other person for granted even when you don’t mean to.
Try not to stop paying her compliments when you think they are appropriate. A good time to give her one is when you both have a date night!
Buy her flowers
No matter what a girl says, she will appreciate you buying her flowers.
This is a great way to both surprise her and buy her flowers. She will be really happy that you have thought of her and been romantic in that way.
Girls love receiving flowers for their birthdays and for Valentine’s Day as well. It shows them how much they mean to you.
Stay up late and have deep conversations with her
Girls love having deep conversations. It is one of the ways that they connect deeply with the person they are dating.
They especially love it when a guy stays up late with them to have a deep conversation.
The best conversations often happen at night when our brains are sort of over thinking. So why not spend one night doing this. You can talk about everything and really get to know each other.
Be a gentleman
Being a gentleman is something that never goes out of fashion!
Girls love it when guys hold open the car door for them, hang up their coats, hold their hands and pull out their chairs. These are little gestures but are definitely note worthy ones.
This might sound old fashioned, but it actually shows that you respect women, and you have good values. This is what can signal to a woman that you are a valuable person to date.
Comfort her when she is sad
Girls are extremely emotional and they feel their emotions in a different way to men. This means they can be sad or crying more than men.
Guys can get really annoyed at this because it feels like they are spending all their time comforting a girl. It is worth remembering that she cannot help this. Her emotions and hormones are all over the place which is what creates this.
Try to be empathetic towards her and comfort her when she is sad or down. She will really appreciate it.
Support her
A girl wants a partner who is going to stand by her and support her even when times are tough.
She needs someone to rely on and simply be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on. She might not often talk about how she mentions it but it’s definitely something that she needs and wants.
Give her your opinion
You shouldn’t keep your opinion to yourself.
Girls value it and like to hear it. If she is having a problem and you think that your opinion could really help her out, share it with her. She deserves to hear it and she can either take it on board or leave it.
At Least you have shared it with her though.
Be friends with her friends
Just like she wants you to get along with her family, she also wants you to get along with her friends.
Even if they are not normally people you would be friends with, be nice and spend time with them.
Give her your hoodie
This is every girl’s dream! If she has a hoodie or jumper that she likes and it’s yours, give it to her.
She will treasure it and wear it when you are not around.
Make her a cup of tea
It’s something so simple but it means so much! Girls love it when a guy brings them a cup of tea or coffee in bed. It makes their morning and sets them up for a great day plus it earns you some brownie points!