This might come as a shock to some older men, but a lot of younger women seek a partner in the older generation.
A lot of girls don’t want to date guys their own age for a variety of different reasons. Some being personal and some being they won’t want to deal with their own generation.
It can be daunting for you to navigate yourself around the dating scene. Especially if you’re way out of your comfort zone and seeking out a woman who is a lot younger than you.
It’s important to understand that there are some women who will be straight up and let you know if she’s into you. Then there are some women who appear to be a bit shyer when it comes to letting you know what’s on her mind and in her heart.
So, how do you know if a girl is feeling towards an older man? Well, we’ve looked into this for you and asked the questions so you don’t have to. Avoid the awkward silence at all costs!
Signs she’s into you
Time
She wants to spend time with you
The more time a girl wants to spend with you, the more she likes you. Even if you’re not doing anything interesting or entertaining. She will want to tag along just so she can be in your company.
Need to go to the store? She will come with you. Need to go get your hair cut and pay a bill at the bank? Best believe she will be sitting happy in the passenger seat. Younger women love to spend time with older men that they like. Regardless of the length of time or the destination.
It’s not just about going places either. If you need to do things around the house or you just want to chill and watch TV for a few hours, she will be more than happy to sit beside you or cuddle.
The more she likes you the more she will just want to be in your presence. However, don’t get confused and think that means you don’t have to put a bit of effort into things when you do spend time together.
It’s important to make equal effort, but we’ll get into that further along in the video.
Maturity
Don’t text me 24/7
A lot of young women don’t actually want to talk to you 24 hours a day despite the stereotype of them being on their phone all the time.
In fact, the idea that older men are too busy running a business or working hard so they can’t always be on their phones, is very attractive to younger women. Talk about ambition and hard work. Who wants to constantly text someone?
Surely if you’re always on your phone then you’re not paying attention to other things that should be more important to you – like your job! Simple forms of communication is the only thing women are looking for when it comes to dating older men.
A quick “hey babe, I’m in and out of meetings today so I will check in when I can” can go a long way. Especially if a lady is feeling insecure and starts overthinking that you’re not replying because you’re with someone else or you’ve lost interest in her.
A part of being mature is putting the effort into planning dates for the two of you too. None of this “I don’t know what you want to do?”, we don’t like that vibe. It shows your maturity and interest in a girl if you go out of your way to plan even the simplest of dates – a picnic in the park.
A date doesn’t have to be expensive thing. It’s just about putting the time and effort into each other and showing that you want to spend time with her.
A lot of younger guys think that a girl sat beside them on their bed whilst they play video games or watch TV is a date. It is not, it’s a pastime that isn’t fun or engaging at all.
Guys her age
God, they’re so immature!
It’s been recorded that the male brain doesn’t actually mature until around the age of 45. I can literally feel the eye rolls from all the ladies now. Women do not want to babysit their partner in any shape or form. Being more mature sets you apart from the crowd massively. If they wanted a child they’d have one, but we don’t, they want a partner.
So guys, if you’re worried you don’t have much to offer women of the younger generation, fear not. Your age puts you in a league of your own without any effort!
She will make it known that she doesn’t like guys her own age by making different comments like “ugh he just plays video games every day!” or things like “my friend’s boyfriend just sits at home all day, he doesn’t even work!”.
It is very well known that younger guys love to play mind games with girls because they still have that mindset of ‘treat them mean to keep them keen’.
Women have grown up, they have stepped away from this false narrative and completely given up with their own generation of guys.
Nobody wants to wake up every day wondering what mind game they will get that day. Everyone wants a happy and simple life and if you’re going to go out your way to make things as difficult as possible for no reason – girls will not look at you twice.
Circle
This is my best friend…
When a girl likes you, she will start to introduce you to her close friends and people who are important to her.
Younger women have that mindset of ‘my best friend has to approve of you if we’re going to date each other’. If she has mentioned you meeting the BFF then that’s a good sign that you’re in there and possibly moving to the next step.
There’s a bit of a stigma that younger girls are a little embarrassed if they’re dating an older man – let’s just put that to bed right now. They’re not embarrassed.
If they were, they definitely would not be wanting to introduce you to important people in their lives. If she mentioned meeting the parents then you should 100% feel comfortable in knowing that she likes you. This is a huge step and a good step to take too!
Questions
Younger women will ask a range of questions to gauge what’s going on in your mind and what your thoughts on the future are. It may seem annoying at first. But take it as a compliment that she has taken an interest in things about you and your life. It means she likes you.
Past relationships
All girls want to know why your past relationship ended to that they can see how not to be should you enter into a new relationship.
If you broke up because your ex didn’t make the effort you wanted, best believe they will do everything in their power to show you they will make that effort. They will also ask about past relationships so they can compare themselves and what they have to offer. Sounds silly I know, but it’s a girl thing.
How was your day?
If a girl likes you then she will take an interest in your daily activity. She will want to know about that stressful meeting you had to go through, or the traffic jam you got stuck in.
Knowing these things allows younger women to gauge what mood you’re in so that they can try to make you feel better. You might think your day has been boring and she won’t be interested, but trust me, she will be.
If she likes you, any little detail you tell her will intrigue her. It shows her that you trust her, and she will learn all these little things about her.
Are you busy?
If a girl asks if you’re busy, it’s because she is trying to figure out if you have any spare time to spend with her.
She’s trying to see if you’re free to hangout with her without actually asking you and running the risk of being rejected.
Conclusion
We understand the nerve-wracking feeling of trying to date someone who isn’t in your age range. Hopefully after hearing these signs then you can see that you have nothing to fear.
You’re not on the bench because you’re older than her. In fact, you’re probably the quarterback that she is drooling over!
So, pretend to be confident and get out there and start chatting to those lovely ladies that are giving you the eye.
You’ll be pleasantly surprised by how many young women are also looking for a more mature, older man. Happy dating!