Learn how to attract women by using these charismatic tricks they love! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing how to use charisma when talking to girls so that you can build attraction with them!
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If you ever wanted to know how you can be more charismatic well, you clicked on the right video. The charismatic tricks that I’m going to talk about today will help you develop that charismatic personality and become a lot more likable by a variety of people.
Being charismatic will help you achieve more things in your life but specifically in your love life. You will start attracting opportunities like a magnet, with your inspirational, interesting, fascinating and curious personality. Now the meaning of charisma is to exercise a compelling charm which inspires devotion in others.
Basically, if you can turn on that charm then you can attract the ladies. So let’s dive into these charismatic tricks that men use that girls adore so that you can attract more ladies and achieve a lot more in your life let’s go.
How to attract women using charisma
You need to start by valuing yourself
You can’t be charismatic and execute the tricks I am about to teach you, if you don’t value yourself.
I am not telling you to never question yourself. Of course, you should want to improve yourself all the time, but this does not mean that you are not already valuable because you are.
Believe that you are valuable just the way you are and if you don’t think that already then start working towards it so that you can be truly charismatic.
Avoid one-upping her at all costs
This is something we all do from time to time.
You might be on a date for example with a girl that you really like.
After a few drinks she starts telling you about something amazing that she has achieved at work. Instead of saying, well done, that is so amazing. You start telling her a story about when you did something better.
You might not even realize that you are doing it. This is something we often do when we are trying to make a connection with someone. It comes across like you are trying to one up her and it makes you look desperate.
You don’t want to look desperate at all, you want to look charismatic and confident. So instead listen to what she has to say and then congratulate her and tell her how amazing you think she is.
She will find out in time about your achievement, and it will come across a lot better if you wait for it to come up naturally.
Don’t be cheap
Charismatic men are never cheap. It’s actually a very good trait to save money and be savvy with what you spend.
It shows a lady that you could provide for her later on in life and have a stable income. On a date though, there’s no need for this.
The trick charismatic men use is that they offer to arrange the date.
They can take the lady to a nice restaurant but not an outrageously expensive restaurant. On the date don’t mention how much you earn or that something is expensive.
Steer the conversation in a different direction. Instead let her order anything she likes and pay at the end.
This will make you look generous and not cheap without you showing off about how much money you have. You won’t look like a show off, you will look charismatic.
Be respectful
Charismatic men are never disrespectful to a lady or to anyone.
They are polite to everyone from the waiters in a restaurant to the old lady on the street. They offer to help people out and say please and thank you.
These types of men are also really respectful of women. They would not interrupt a woman while she was speaking or make overly sexual comments.
A charismatic man keeps it PG and believes in treating his lady right. Women can pick up on this as soon as they meet a man like this.
It makes them much more likely to go for them which would increase your rate of success with ladies.
Don’t talk about your ex-girlfriends
Charismatic men never speak about their exes. It’s a simple no-go. Women hate hearing about the woman men have been with in the past, it is a real turn off and can make a woman jealous early on.
When you mention another lady, the one you are on a date with will assume that you still have feelings for her. Why would you be mentioning her otherwise?
Although she might keep dating you, she will always have this cloud hanging over her, wondering if you still like your ex.
A charismatic man does not need to speak about his ex to fill in silence.
He has a lot of topics he can talk about, and he has a lot of questions that he already has to ask girls.
So, if you are wanting to appear charismatic then you need to quit talking about your ex-girlfriends and talk about more interesting topics.
Steer clear of all sensitive issues
Talking about your ex-girlfriend is a sensitive topic but you should also steer clear of other sensitive issues.
Although you might feel clever when you start talking about conspiracy theories, the girl you are on a date with will not. Especially on your first few dates try to stay away from divisive topics.
Keep the conversation lighter and focus mostly on her. You could ask her how she found lockdown but don’t ask her how she feels about the covid-19 vaccine for example.
Keep it as light as possible and talk about anything you bring up with confidence.
Be cool
Keep calm, stay cool and be cool. It can be nerve wracking when you meet a lady and it’s normal to feel a little nervous.
We all feel like that from time to time but try to remember that she is probably nervous as well.
This might help you be able to manage your nervousness and put across a confident version of yourself. She will find this very attractive.
Act happy
The reason this point is called ‘act happy’ is because not everyone is happy all the time.
Not even charismatic guys are happy all the time. Sure, they might be confident and sure of themselves, but they are not always happy. It’s something we all have to work on.
When you are on a date though or just around a girl that you like then it is important to act happy, even when you don’t feel it. You can do this by smiling a lot and speaking in a more lively voice.
Make sure you laugh as much as possible as well and she won’t be able to tell the difference. To her you will seem very charismatic and confident.
Charm her
This is a huge part of being charismatic and therefore it is a trick that you can use. You should be able to charm a lady if you are to be truly charismatic.
So how do you do this? Well, it’s not as difficult as you might be thinking it is. You can use the way you speak to charm a lady. The words you use and the way you say them is a good place to start. Use some long words but not so long that she won’t understand them.
Speak in a slightly lower voice and a bit slower. Compliment her as well along the way. Use your eye contact which can be really powerful and flash her a slightly sly smile. All of these things will help you charm any lady.
K.I.S. (Keep Things Simple)
You don’t need to make things complicated from the words you use to the way you act around her. Keep it simple and be yourself.
The most charismatic trick you can use is something that I mentioned at the very beginning of this video. It’s being yourself, valuing yourself and being confident in yourself.
If you have all of these things then you will always come across as charismatic and any lady would be lucky to have you.
Work on eye contact
A girl can pick up on your nervousness just from your eye contact. She can tell when you are looking around the room instead of at her that you are either not interested or nervous.
This is not how a charismatic guy would look, he would look at her straight in the eye and grab her glance from across the room. It might take some practise but once you nail this, you’ll be known as a charismatic guy.