Learn how to get girls to want you instantly! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing some steps you can take immediate action on if you want to impress a woman and get her to fall for you.
It can often seem like some guys have all the luck when it comes to the ladies. They attract them instantly and always have different ladies on the go at once. You might be thinking it’s their personality or their looks that gets them this type of attention, but more often than not it’s a mixture of these two things plus some other specific things that land them the ladies. And are you searching for that instant connection, you know that flash of magnetic magical energy that lights up the room. And would you love it for just once a girl badly wanted you instantly, instead of you having to stand awkwardly in the corner while watching other men have all the look with the ladies.
Well, you have come to the right place and to the right person. And as a lady I know what makes us badly want men instantly. I know what we look for and what gets us to the stage where we think there might be an instant connection. And in today’s video I’m going to share some of my secrets with you so that you can get a lady to badly want you instantly. are you ready to be irresistible?
How to make a girl badly want you
Impress her with your great style
Girls do care about what a man looks like and what he wears. To some girls this might not be the most important thing but they still care! Picture you standing across the room from a girl. What do you notice first? Her eyes? Her smile or her outfit? An outfit takes up the most space on a person which is why it is normally the first thing we notice. It makes a first impression on the lady before you even have a chance to.
Putting an effort into your style is important, it shows a girl that you care about how you show yourself off to the world.
If you find it difficult to style yourself, ask a fashionable friend or family member if they can go shopping with you. Get the basics right: a nice top, a nice jacket, some jeans and then a smart outfit for a date. Update these pieces every few months so that they stay smart. It will give you the best chance to instantly make a great impression.
Make your life as interesting and as exciting as possible
If you have ever been to the movies, it’s easy to get sucked into someone’s life. You sit there for two hours watching your favourite character’s life intermittently, and you start to think ‘I would love to be able to be their friend or be in their life’. You want to share the excitement they are experiencing right? The same goes for when a lady is looking for a man to date. She wants someone who has an interesting and exciting life that she can join. She wants to always be having fun with you and doing spontaneous things. So try to have as many exciting things happening as possible so that when you meet a girl you can tell her all about your life and have her instantly wanting you.
Have a signature scent
When we first meet someone before even speaking to them we notice their outfit, maybe their shoes and the way they smell (if we are close enough). Scent is a huge part of attraction and it is something we associate with people we like. This could mean a friend’s scent, family members scent or romantic interests scent. If you want a girl to badly want you instantly make sure you smell irresistible. Spend some time picking a cologne or perfume that you think matches you and your personality. For example if you are more introverted you might prefer to wear a more woody scent. If you are more extroverted than a floral scent with a hint of pepper might work for you. Ask for help at the shop you go to as they can match a scent to you and help you find something you scent. Smelling good also gives us a lot of confidence which can help attract all the ladies!
Stay fit and take care of yourself
When you first meet someone your outfit is important and so is the way the rest of your body looks. It’s important that you prepare to meet the girl of your dreams and have her falling at your feet. You need to hit the gym or play a sport you enjoy regularly so that you can look your best with your clothes off. If you look great, a girl is going to want you badly.
You also need to stay groomed which means cutting your hair, trimming your facial hair and keeping up your overall hygiene. This will all help when it comes to making the first impression and making a great instant connection.
Be great at flirting
Have you ever been told that you were great at flirting? If you have not, it might be an area that you need to work on. Start by practising in front of the mirror and watching some of our past videos about flirting tips to get you started. When a girl first meets you, she wants to know that you don’t just want to be friends. She wants to know that you are interested in her and that you want a little more than friendship. Flirting with her shows her this clearly so get the practise in and be ready to show her that you mean business when you first meet her. She will instantly know that you want more than friendship and start putting her best foot forward.
Being a gentleman is a lost art and so many men have forgotten just how important it is now. It is such a simple thing to do that can help you win a girl over. So how can you be a gentleman? Well start with opening her car door, opening the door to the restaurant, taking her coat and hanging it up and walking on the roadside when walking her home. These simple acts will help you stand out and be different.
In the movie, Kingsman, Colin Firth’s character, Harry Hart famously says “manners maketh man” which means that we are all judged on how we behave and treat other people. Basically in a world full of men who are busy not being gentlemen, be a gentleman and get the girls attention.
Be protective of her instantly
Girls love it when men are protective of them, they want a man who is going to look after them. Don’t wait until you are in a relationship to start this, start straight away by doing small things like walking on the roadside to protect her from oncoming traffic, grabbing her hand if you are in a busy area or if someone is rude to her then calling them up on it.
When girls think of protective guys they think of someone who is hulk-like but is also so soft on the inside. Honestly we love this type of guy and if a guy instantly tries to protect us then we will always like them and think about them. So if you want her to instantly want you, be protective from the beginning.
Show her your skills and passion
Think of it like an elevator pitch, you have 15 minutes to make an impression on the lady of your dreams. Your outfit, how you smell, your ability to flirt and being a gentleman, these things will all help. Your passion and skills will help seal the deal though. Passion is important and a girl likes a man who is motivated and knows what he wants. So if she asks what your hobbies are or what you are interested in, have something lined up ready to tell her about.
You might play a sport, run your own business or work in your dream job. Whatever it is, don’t be afraid to tell her all about it and why you love it so much. Also touch on your future and your goals even if you have just met the girl it is good for her to know that you have aspirations to look towards and you have a plan. This is something you can do so simply which will make her want you badly.
Those were 8 simple things you can easily do to make sure that a girl instantly wants you.