Make girls chase you! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing how to make girls chase you! Learn how to stop chasing her and make her chase you instead. When it comes to dating tips in general there’s a few psychological tips and body language tools you can take advantage of to give you the upper hand.
By learning how to make a woman chase you, instead of the other way around, you’ll be setting yourself up for more success with women. The initial chase can be a fun and flirtatious stage that many women enjoy, bringing them closer to you and building attraction. By making a woman chase you you’ll increase the likelihood that she falls for you and wants to spend even more time with you.
Did you know that you don’t always need to be the one chasing a lady. Men do spend a lot of their lives chasing women and they are not always successful. It uses up a lot of physical and mental energy not to mention all the time that gets wasted.
Some women love being chased by men, they let them chase them enjoy the nice dates and then poof, simply vanish. To them it’s a game. Which means that you might be chasing women only for them to leave you and going through the same thing repeatedly. Gents it’s time to break the cycle and give girls the chance to chase you.
This might be just the video that you need to flip your dating life on its head and start being a little luckier with the ladies.
How to make any girl chase you
Remember that first impressions matter
We only have one chance to make a first impression and if that wasn’t stressful enough, you only have 7 seconds to make an impression. That’s all the attention we give people when we meet them! So, you want to make every single second count.
She won’t learn everything about you in those 7 seconds, but she will look at what you are wearing, how you are standing or sitting and your general body language.
This means you want to make sure that you are looking good, standing, or sitting with good posture and that you are displaying open body language which means no crossing your arms. This will ensure you really impress her.
Try not to look thirsty
You might be wondering what ‘looking thirsty’ means. Well, it’s when a girl or a guy looks desperate.
On a night out, you have probably witnessed a friend looking thirsty. Following a girl around the club even though she is obviously not interested and flirting with any other girl that so much as looks at him.
It’s not a good look, girls will quickly label you a creep. You don’t want to do this if you are trying to impress her. Instead stand back, let her come to you.
That is all part of her chasing you remember.
Being a man who is chased by women, takes confidence. You don’t often find guys without any confidence chasing girls.
You will need to take a step back and let girls come to you. This requires a lot of confidence because you need to think to yourself ‘I am worth a girl chasing me.’
Prepare yourself for this by working on your confidence. Working out helps you to build confidence as does telling yourself what you like about yourself.
Don’t be too available
If someone is available all the time it makes them look easy to get.
Girls don’t like chasing guys if they are easy to get. They want to work for it and have to put in some effort. If they ask you for coffee, you could say “sorry I am busy with my friends then.”
It shows her that she needs to work a little harder but also that you have your own life and friends.
It might sound harsh, but it will make you far more attractive in her eyes.
Give her proper attention
You want her to chase you, but you don’t want to be so unavailable that she thinks you are not interested at all.
When you are together, you should listen to everything she has to say and treat her in a way that any gentleman would. You should also pay her attention when you are not face to face.
Reply to her text messages and phone her like you would with any other girl. Don’t just think you can get away with the bare minimum because she will just find another guy to chase.
Connect with her mind
If you want to get a girl to chase you then you need to get her slightly addicted to you. You want to always leave her wanting more.
One way to do this is to connect with her mind. Forming a connection with someone makes them more likely to want to be around you and want more of you.
If she mentions something that has happened to her that has also happened to you then you could use it as a chance to open-up to her.
You could also connect with something that you both love. Maybe she really likes reading and so do you, you could connect over which books you love the most.
Connecting with a girl’s mind is a wonderful way to get her hooked.
Take control when needed
Not everything should be up to her. Sure, she is chasing you, but you need to be in control sometimes as well.
Being in control of some situations will help her see your confidence which girls find attractive. Maybe you are both deciding where to go for dinner and you keep going back and forth.
Take control of the situation and decide for the both of you.
Be funny around her and a little cocky
Girls love funny guys. They are more likely to chase them because that’s the kind of man they want to be in a relationship with.
When you are around her and even when you are not, be funny and be confident. Don’t be afraid to tell her great things about yourself, just don’t show off.
Don’t give everything away be a little mysterious
Once you have told her everything about you, that’s it she knows! You want to be more mysterious and not tell her everything. Leave her wanting to know more about her.
Let her ask you questions as well and answer them, but don’t give away everything. Keep some things back. She can learn them as you both get to know each other more.
Never chase her
Remember not to become the person to chase her.
The tables can turn quickly when you are getting to know a girl and suddenly you realize how much you like her. You don’t want to lose her and so you chase her, you don’t want this to happen.
Stay alert and check in with yourself every now and then.
Ask yourself who is doing the chasing here?
Find your style
Part of making a good impression is looking good and the same goes if you want a girl to keep chasing you.
You need to have great style. Maybe you already dress well, and you are happy with your style, which is great! If you think that you could do better, now is the time to update your wardrobe.
If you struggle to know what you should wear, ask a friend, family member or a shop assistant. They will be able to guide you to what they think might look good but remember that you also need to be authentically you.
Put you first
Putting a girl at the front of everything is a mistake that so many guys make.
You need to always put yourself first. Girls will actually admire you for this and they will think of you as a strong human being.
Love your life
One of the best ways to get a girl to chase you is to simply have a life that you love.
That means having a job you like, friends and family you love and hobbies and interests.
She will want to be a part of this and is more likely to chase you to try and be a part of your life. Before you can expect ladies to be lining up for you, you need to have a life that attracts them in.
Take her on fun activities
You don’t want to be like every other guy that she has dated.
You want to stand out so that she wants to chase you. One way to do this is to take her on fun activities instead of the standard dinner date.
You could take her mini golfing, rock climbing or to the beach for a picnic. Think creatively and ask yourself, what might she have not done before?
She will love how much thought you have put into the date and be really impressed. Once she has had this experience she will only want you.