Alpha males often feel threatened by sigma males as they consider them to be challenging. Sigmas are self-sufficient and independent, but they have great game with women and can easily charm them.
They are often considered more down to earth and much more approachable in comparison to the alpha male who is brimming with confidence. Sigma males are rare, and they have quirky habits that grab girls’ attention and keeps them interested.
Women want these rare males and in today’s video I’m going to tell you exactly why. So, grab a notebook and a pen and make some scribbles! Like and subscribe.
Why women want sigma men
He is non-conforming
Sigma males do not want to blend in or follow whatever it is that the group is doing.
They don’t conform to social norms which is part of their charm. Sigmas would rather be their own unique selves and people can either love them for it or not.
This means that sigmas do not follow trends, including fashion trends.
They stick to what they know. This can make them appear to be a bit of a rebel which is something else that girls love about them.
He is self sufficient
Sigma’s will go beyond dating a woman. They will settle down once they find the right lady and enjoy a nice life with them.
This does not mean however that they will stop looking after themselves. Although they are in a relationship, they will still want to look after themselves and their partner.
This means they want to have their own job and money. They will do their own washing and cleaning. Sigma’s do not need their hands held.
This is something women really love about them. They don’t need to be their girlfriend and mum, they can just be their girlfriend. Sigmas are typically attracted to women who will allow them to have this freedom and be self-sufficient.
He is a loner
A sigma does like other people’s company but unlike an alpha, he does not need it all the time. Sigma men like to spend time alone.
When they are single, they will often be referred to as loners. Sigma men will spend time alone, thinking about the world and how they fit into it. This makes them very thoughtful and self-aware partners to have.
Introverted girls enjoy this side of a sigma as it means they don’t always have to go out and party with them.
Extroverted girls have to respect this about them and understand it is part of who they are.
He is a silent leader
Alpha males are loud leaders. They are the ones that lead a meeting or stand in front of a room full of people shouting orders. Sigma males are leaders without meaning to be, they are what we call, silent leaders.
They don’t need to say anything for people to feel led by them. They influence people by dressing a certain way and acting a certain way.
They don’t need to be the loudest in the room to be heard and respected. This makes them valuable leaders.
He is adaptable
Sigma males can quickly and effectively adapt to changing situations. They are flexible and are willing to change the way they do things if they think it is going to turn out better.
Sigma men are not afraid of change, and they will silently adapt to things without very much protest. This makes them great employees, leaders, friends and partners.
He is stubborn
Although adaptable, sigma males can still be stubborn. If they really believe in something, they will not change their opinion on it and will fight to get their point across.
A sigma male really has to believe in something to do this, but you would not want to come up against him when he does.
Women love that he sticks up for the things that he believes in and finds it very attractive.
He is self-aware
He understands himself and everything that makes him who he is. He is aware of his annoying habits or less pleasant sides of himself.
In a social situation, he knows when to speak up and when to step back and let others speak. This is all down to the fact that sigma males have great self-awareness.
It makes them a lovely person to be around and a great boyfriend to have.
He is observant
In a social situation a sigma may go off by himself. This can get him labeled as a loner but what he is really doing is observing.
He likes to watch people and get a sense of who they are before he approaches them. He also observes the way people look, dress and their behavior.
In a relationship this can be a very handy skill to have. A sigma male will often speak to a lady and compliment her on a new dress she has bought. The lady might think, how has he even realized that I have a new dress? Well, it is because he is observant of course.
He has a curious mind
You might sometimes find a sigma male standing staring at a wall. You might think to yourself, what is he even thinking about. Sigmas have very curious minds which keep them busy.
They will spend their time thinking about the smallest things and wondering what they are. Anything from a bug to something bigger like the solar system.
They are creative thinkers because of their curious minds.
Women often want to really know what is going on inside their minds and for this reason they find sigma men very mysterious.
He is respectful
Sigma males are respectful to every person that they meet.
It does not matter what walk of life they have come from or what that person can offer them, they are always polite and respectful to them. They respect other people’s opinions even if they sometimes fight for what they believe in.
When they are in a relationship, sigmas are respectful of the other person especially when they are arguing.
They will never act out in anger or overstep the line.
He is charismatic
Although sigma men are reserved and can be thought of as shy, they are also charismatic which can come as a surprise to people.
When they are in a social situation, they can be funny, hold a conversation and even be loud.
This can be what initially attracts women to a sigma and why they are sometimes confused with alpha males.
He knows what he wants
Sigma males have drive. They know what they want and when they want it.
Sigma’s never shy away from hard work and opportunities. They will work hard in a job so that they can get what they want.
The same goes for a sigma in a relationship. A sigma already knows the type of lady he would like to settle down with. Once they are together, he will know what he wants and when he wants it.
He will be open and honest and say, I am ready to have children or get married. This directness is something women love.
He values his personal space
Sigma males make great partners for independent women who like to have their own space when they are in a relationship.
They might have dated before only to find that the boyfriend expects too much from her and she prefers to be single if it means she gets her freedom.
Sigma males really value their personal space. This means they like alone time and if they do live with a partner, they like to have their own area that they can retreat to. They might like to sit in one room doing something while their partners sit in a different room doing something else.
Anyone who dates a sigma needs to be aware that they are like this.
Independents find this one of the main reasons they enjoy dating a sigma. They feel as though they can be themselves.