Learn how to seduce a woman using only your words! In today’s video we’re going to be discussing the art of seduction and communicating with women, exactly how to go about seducing her by building attraction just by speaking to a woman.
How To Seduce Women Using Only Words
Women are no longer only interested in just looks, words matter as well! That means you need to make sure the words that you are using are artful and most importantly seductive. Women actually prefer men who are good with their words and use every word carefully.
It sounds like a magical myth doesn’t it? To be able to seduce a woman using only your words. It’s not easy to learn how to use words to seduce a woman. It takes time and practise.
In this video I am going to arm you with some tips and tricks on how to talk to woman and seduce them.
So are you ready to learn how to seduce a woman using only your words? Keep watching.
10 steps to seducing women using only words
- Be honest
It’s important to always be yourself. It can be difficult to show your true self when you are first dating someone because you want to impress them.
But it is really important to the lady you are dating. It is really sexy to a lady because it builds trust. Trust is super important to women and is a key part of any relationship.
If you want a long term relationship then you have to be able to truly be yourself. You are amazing and it’s important that you show this off to the lady you are trying to seduce.
- Avoid sarcasm
Once you really know someone, a little sarcasm is ok. But if this is the first few dates with a lady, avoid sarcasm at all costs. This is not a good way to seduce a lady with your words.
This is because not everyone understands sarcasm. So your words could offend her and make her feel bad. Of course, you don’t want this, you want to make her feel like the most wonderful woman in the world.
Once I went on a blind date. When I first saw the gentleman in the restaurant, I was very attracted to how be looked. Unfortunately as soon as he opened his mouth, I realised he was very sarcastic. It felt as if he was attacking me and I was not seduced at all. It was a total turn off and you have probably guessed it, I never saw him again.
Instead of sarcasm, use one-liners, compliment her and make observations. If you do this, she will be really attracted to you. This is a great way to seduce her with your words.
- Use Humour
When it comes to dating someone if you make me laugh, you have my undivided attention.
Humour is a great way to attract a girl because well, we love funny guys! They make us think long term. If a guy is funny, it makes us think that if anything was to progress they could keep things interesting.
If you are going to have a future with someone, you want them to be able to keep you entertained. It’s important!
We don’t expect you to do a comedy sketch for us but if you weave some funny jokes into a conversation, you will have us in the palm of your hands. It’s best when these jokes are natural.
- Tell her if you’re nervous
It’s ok to be nervous. In all likelihood, if you are nervous she probably is as well. It’s a very normal human emotion. So if this happens, speak up. Make light of it and say, “are you as nervous as me?”. A lady will be flattered that you have opened up to her and trusted her with your feelings.
She will most likely reply “I am very nervous as well but that’s put me at ease”. It will help her feel more connected to you and comfortable around you. Which is key if you want to seduce her.
- Don’t go over the top
An important skill to have is realising when a conversation has come to a natural end. All conversations end at some point.
You might be walking her home after your date. You reach her front door and start chatting. There is a perfect length of conversation and it’s up to you to understand when it’s time to go.
She might say “Thank you for a great night” and you could reply “I had such a great time and look forward to when we next see each other”. Then you should say goodbye and leave. If she was to invite you in for a cup of tea, you could continue the conversation.
It’s important that you don’t talk too much or too little. It’s all a balancing act. If this is something you are not comfortable with, why don’t you practise with friends and family before any dates?
- Lean as close as possible when you talk
This isn’t strictly you using your words but it’s definitely related. When you are talking or making a joke, make sure to lean in close to her.
Don’t lean to close, a lady likes to have her own space. But if you lean towards her, it means she will be able to really listen to what you have to say. Remember eye contact when you do this as well! Lady’s love strong eye contact.
This action coupled with amazing conversations will really seduce a woman (and you only need to use your words and a little body language).
- Compliment her
Complimenting her is perhaps the best way to seduce her. Every lady loves compliments. As long as they are genuine. In fact, it releases a hormone in their brain which makes women feel very attracted to you.
You can easily weave a compliment into a conversation and it will just leave her feeling flattered and like you like her.
Some compliments you could use are, “I love your coat”, “you have the most amazing eyes”, “your shade of lipstick looks lovely” or “your hair is such a great colour.”
Whichever applies to your lady make sure you definitely say something. She will absolutely love it.
Women find communication sexy and very attractive. If you feel a certain way about something, tell her. Don’t be condescending but communicate your feelings truthfully to her. She will really appreciate it. It’s also a sign to her that if things develop, you would make a great partner.
As the saying goes, communication is key.
- Ask her questions about herself
Have you ever been out for a drink with someone who only talks about themselves? Because same! It’s super off putting. Definitely not someone I would like to be in a relationship with.
That’s why it is so important to ask her questions about herself. It makes her feel like you really care about her and are interested in her. You will find out more about her and how she ticks. She will feel like she has been on an amazing date with a super guy. This is such a simple way to seduce a woman using only your words but it’s often missed on dates!
By asking her questions you also develop trust. As mentioned above, if a lady trusts you, she is more likely to be attracted to you. And seduced by you.
- Support a lady’s dreams
When you ask your special lady questions she might reveal some of her hopes and dreams. Make sure to be supportive when she does. She will feel like you are on her team. She might even think “this is the person I want to be seduced by forever!”
My most important piece of advice
Are you ready? Be genuine and be yourself.
You are so amazing and any girl would be lucky to have you. If you use your words wisely to seduce her, your genuine personality is what will keep her coming back for more. So that it can develop from basic attraction, into a relationship. Which is what we all want right guys!
So next time you are on a date with a lovely lady, think back to these way’s to seduce a woman using only your words. She will be impressed and instantly seduced.