12 Very Subtle Flirting Signs Men Miss (Signs A Girl Is Flirting With You)

12 Very Subtle Flirting Signs Men Miss (Signs A Girl Is Flirting with You)

Do you often find that women get frustrated when they are around you, and you have no idea why?

There is a huge possibility that she is getting frustrated with you because she is dropping hint after hint and you’re just not picking it up. Do you even notice if she’s flirting with you?

I’m going to assume that your answer is no, and that’s why you are here, so that you can get some answers and turn that frown upside down, right.

Fear not, for we have a number of signs that she is flirting with you that you may have missed. Let’s take a look.

Signs she is flirting with you


One of the most obvious signs that a girl is flirting with you is how open she is about her single status.

When a woman is attracted to you, she wants you to know that there is nobody else in her life that she could be attracted to besides you.

Whether she continuously says “I’m single, and I hate it” or brings up conversations about her being one of the only single girlfriends in the group. She is dropping a lot of hints that she is single and, well, ready to mingle.

The eyes

Now we’ve all heard the saying “the eyes are the window to the soul,” right! And whilst yes it is kind of true, the eyes also tell you a lot more than you thought if you know what you are looking for that is.

A woman will use her eyes to flirt with you without using any words as a form of protection in case she gets rejected.

Now she can do this by glancing over a couple of times to get your attention.

She could also make intense eye contact with you whilst you are talking. This works really well if you are in a group of people, and she is subconsciously letting you know that you have her undivided attention. 


A woman who is flirting with you will find an excuse to touch you as a form of love language.

Have you noticed that you’re in the middle of a conversation, she places her hand on your arm for a couple of seconds, but doesn’t look like she’s acknowledging that she’s touched you?

Well, she knows that she’s touched you of course, and she knows that you now know that she has touched you.

So, this is a subtle sign that she’s flirting with you, and she’s, well, kind of waiting to see how you respond to it. 

The brows

From a scientific point of view, we raise our eyebrows to allow more light into our eyes so that we can see more clearly.

When a woman is around a man that she is sexually attracted to and wants to flirt with, well she will raise her eyebrows because she likes what she sees when she looks at him so that her eyes appear bigger and more attractive to him.

A raised eyebrow is also a very subtle, subconscious flirting technique that is used to let the other person know that you like what you see when you look at them.

Although that eyebrow raise can last for as little as two seconds, once you notice it, you will be able to spot it from a thousand miles away.

The giggle 

We have all been irritated by girly giggles at some point in our lives.

Woman will use the giggle to get your attention.

Have you said something in a conversation to which she has responded by giggling, even if what you said, wasn’t actually that funny? If so, she’s flirting with you! Time to make a move.


Women are incredibly emotionally invested in people that they have feelings for. Nothing is superficial when it comes to their feelings.

The very subtle way that they will flirt with you is by increasing the number of times that they communicate with you over text message. This could be an increase in the length of the text messages they send. Or it could be that the response time becomes much shorter.

Even if the conversation is not incredibly interesting, she will find something to respond to you with just to keep the conversation alive.

Check out

There are so many subtle ways that you can check someone out without them even noticing.

But when a woman is flirting with you, let me tell you, she will make it painfully obvious that she is checking you out, because she wants to see your reaction.

Have you ever noticed someone looking at you again and again. Well, she’s looking to see what your reaction is.

So, the next time you notice this happening this might be a chance to go over and really talk to someone and get a great response back.

Open body language 

Open body language is one of the easiest ways to acknowledge how somebody is feeling in a situation or around certain people.

When a woman is comfortable around you and is flirting with you because she likes you, she will display open body language, which means her subconscious is comfortable around you, and she wants you to know that.

Open body language could be something as simple as her feet pointing towards you during a conversation. Her arms will either be comfortably by her side or placed loosely in her lap; as long as her arms are not crossed over her chest like this, then you are good.

When somebody blocks their chest with their arms, it’s their subconscious guarding mechanism, meaning she is not comfortable around you or comfortable in that conversation.

Social media

Social media is a big part of our world today, so it shouldn’t be surprising that women will use social media as a form of flirting.

A woman will flirt with you through social media by being one of the first people to react to anything that you post. This could be liking a post that you share on Instagram or leaving a comment below a picture of you.

Anything she does to make her presence known on your social media is her way of flirting with you while also letting other people know that she is there and that she is also watching.


A woman who is attracted to you will simply not be able to get close enough to you.

If you are sitting alongside each other, she will slowly shuffle closer to you until you are practically touching.

If you’re walking beside each other, she will walk closer to you so that your hands brush each other as you are walking.

Being close to you also makes it easier for her to flirt with you if she uses physical touch as a form of flirting.

So, if you notice that she is closing that gap between you, this is a good sign that she is getting ready to flirt with you.

Only you

If you notice that a woman only acts a certain way around you or with you, then this, my friend, is a great sign that she is most definitely flirting with you.

Even if she doesn’t know if you like her back or if you don’t flirt back with her, the fact that she only does this with you means that she has strong feelings for you.

However, if she does act very similarly with a lot of people, it’s either her being friendly with everyone or she’s a “naturally flirty person.”


If you flirt with a woman and she doesn’t pull a face or step back from you, then it appears that the feeling is mutual, and she is completely comfortable with you flirting with her.

Some women don’t really know how to flirt with others, so they will allow you to flirt and just agree with you throughout the conversation, by nodding and smiling, in hopes that you will notice their reaction and understand that they feel the same way as you.

The questions

Although it may not appear to be flirting to you, because women are emotionally driven creatures, they will try to gauge more information about you so that they can understand you on a deeper level.

A woman who wants to flirt with you and get to know you more will ask a bunch of different questions throughout the conversation to get more information about who you are as a person, what you like, your friends and family, and so on.

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