Have you ever dated a girl and then reached the stage where you would like to turn up the heat but you’re not quite sure how to do so? It can be challenging right?
To turn a woman on during a conversation without trying to not come across as a creepy guy. You need to be able to strike a balance and use the correct words.
In today’s video I’m going to teach you the things that you should be doing when you are trying to turn a woman on in a conversation.
These tips will help you come across as sexy instead of creepy and help you win over any lady that you want to date.
Start By Setting The Mood
It all begins with setting the right mood. If you were both talking in a more casual, friend-like way then jumping straight into trying to turn her on would turn her off.
You both need to be somewhat on the same page which means that you have to know how she feels.
You should be able to gauge this from the way she acts around you, is she a little shy? Does she flick her hair and giggle? These are signs that she probably does like you which means you can probably make your move.
On the flip side, if she is looking at the ground or making excuses to leave the conversation then she most likely doesn’t feel the same way as you do and it’s time to back away.
If she is giving off good signs and seems to like you then you need to start setting the mood. Start by doing things like moving in closer and lowering your voice a little.
Make sure you are both in the correct environment as well which might take some pre-planning on your part.
She might not want to be turned on in a library and so a dark corner in a bar might be better.
These are things you need to think about before you even begin the conversation.
Have some great questions to ask her
You don’t want to jump into getting hot and heavy.
Instead, you want to both be having a lovely conversation to help set the mood which means having some questions ready to ask her. Ask her one question and then that conversation flows naturally, and more questions come to light. For example, maybe you ask her about her job, and she tells you a little bit about what she does, you could then follow up by asking her what her favorite part of her job is.
You could also ask her some more personal questions but try to stay away from any ex-partners and this might not make her feel very comfortable.
Every girl absolutely loves a compliment from any guy. It makes her so happy, and it immediately lets her know how you feel about her.
Make sure that any compliments you pay her are genuine. Girls can see through compliments that are just made by guys so that they can get what they want. It’s also important that you don’t flood her with compliments because it will make you seem clingy.
If you give her a nice amount of genuine compliments then you cannot go wrong, she will be hooked on your every word.
It is possible to turn her on via a text conversation
We have been talking about a conversation that is taking place when you are face-to-face, but did you know that you can also turn her on via text? It can take more time and work, but it is possible.
This is handy if you don’t live in the same city or if you are both busy and cannot see each other for a while.
It would be better to do it at night-time when she is alone and is relaxed.
You could start by asking what she is wearing and see where it goes from there.
Just like in real life if she does not appear to be interested then don’t pressure her, but if you have been texting for a while then she is waiting for you to make your move.
Turn up the flirting
Whether you are talking in person or via text, if you want to turn her on you need to turn up the flirting.
The worst thing that could happen would be for her to friend zone you. This is something you don’t want and should avoid by making her know you are romantically interested in her.
Flirting is a wonderful way to do this. Use your body language as well as your words to flirt with her and see how she starts to react.
Make her feel extra special
You have probably already complimented her which will make her feel special, but you can take it further.
You could give her something unexpected like red roses or you could take her on an extra special date to a nice restaurant.
A free way to make her feel special is to simply pay her enough attention.
Put your arm around her, hold her hand and look straight into her eyes. It will make her endorphins flow and she will start feeling all warm inside.
Tell her that you want her
At this point she probably knows where things are going, and she is feeling a bit hot and heavy.
Your next step is to tell her that you are interested and want her. A really romantic way to do this is to lean in and whisper it in her ear. It will give her goosebumps and all she will be thinking about is you.
If you are texting then you could type it out and tell her that you wish you could have her now. This helps to build the suspense between each other.
Mention how great she looks
You may have already complimented her looks but compliment her on her outfit as well.
Tell her that she looks great in what she is wearing and point out what you specifically like, maybe you love how tight her dress is? Or how her legs look?
This shows her that you have been looking at her closely and you like what you see.
Invite her on a date
If you have been turning her on via text then it’s time to take it up a notch.
Ask her if she would like to go on a date with you and meet up with you. Pick somewhere that is private and romantic for the date and then run through all the steps we have spoken about today so that you can win her over.
Just turning her on via text is not enough, you need to also do it in person so that it can escalate into something more.
Keep the spice alive
You have done it! You have turned her on during your conversation. Now you need to keep that spice alive until the next time you see each other.
It’s important that you keep up the messaging and keep flirting so that she knows you are still interested.
You could also video call between dates and exchange photos.
To really turn a girl on it’s important that you can also just talk about normal things. So, make sure your relationship does not turn into all flirting, sure it’s appropriate but not all the time.
You still need to care for her and show her that you don’t only want sex by asking her about her day and about herself.
When you have your second date after this, make sure it is just as hot and ask her if she would like to come to your house after or wait until she invites you to hers. If you have done a great job, she will.