15 Rules to Become a Girl's Obsession (Guide to Female Psychology)

15 Rules to Become a Girl’s Obsession (Guide to Female Psychology)

Being a girl’s obsession is even harder to achieve than getting her attention and having her like you.

If you want to make a girl become obsessed with you, get into her head and her heart by being her hero, paying attention to your appearance, making her laugh, and making her feel special.

Although you’ll need to customize your efforts for the specific girl, starting with these fundamental ideas should help!

Become her obsession

High value

Before you meet a girl, you should focus on creating a life that you’re proud of.

So many guys think that girls will like them more if they show off the things that they own, like the sports car and the Rolex watch.

Indeed, sometimes this does pique a girl’s interest. But it’s not important; instead of showing off, you want to be different and stand out from the crowd. And one of the best ways to do this is by talking about your vision.


Be a little enigmatic and withhold some information. Things can quickly become monotonous when guys reveal too much about themselves to girls.

It’s great to continue discovering new things about your partner as you go along if you intend to be in a committed relationship for a long time. She will still be drawn to you, but there will be room for some mystery and suspense.

Keeping some information from the girl beforehand will make you seem enigmatic and keep her guessing. She’ll begin to wonder what else you have to offer.

Understand boundaries

Avoid being intrusive. When she is not interested and has never shown any interest at all, it is off-putting when you are constantly around her, touching her, and acting obnoxiously flirtatious with her. Learn to give her control, even if it’s just a figment of her imagination.

Don’t try to coerce a girl into doing something she doesn’t want to do, like making out or having sex. You can’t make her love you by doing that.

Instead, pay attention to her wishes, comprehend their rationale, and abide by them. With honey, you’ll attract more bees than with vinegar.


Every day, take a shower and shave. Don’t worry if you aren’t yet old enough to shave. By regularly taking a shower or bath, you can smell fresh and look clean.

Become more fit. If you can, get rid of the extra fat and replace it with muscle. Most women prefer men with well-developed muscles who don’t have intimidatingly chiselled physiques. Take part in an intramural sports league that interests you. You might even be able to make a good impression on your lady.

Playing sports is a great way to build muscle and burn fat while having fun. It also shows that you are active and enjoy taking care of your body, which can be attractive to women. 

Avoid the friend zone

While you shouldn’t stop talking to her, you should stop acting like you are her friend. Make this very clear if you want her to be more than just a friend. If not, you risk losing friends.

Change your body language, start messaging her after you see her, and start flirting with her before you ask her out on a date.

If you and she have been friends for a while, she will probably be surprised. However, she will then begin to consider her feelings for you as well.

She might then begin to consider how cool it would be to date you.

Other women

Don’t be too flirtatious with other women.

Even if a girl really likes you, she might change her mind if she witnesses you dancing or conversing with another girl.

Make sure she is aware of your exclusive interest in her.

Having female friends at the same time is a good idea. She will feel safer around you if you hang out with female friends because other women feel at ease around you.

She might assume you don’t know anything about women if you never hang out with any of them.

Just like men, women occasionally participate in competition! So having other women around is helpful, as long as you don’t get involved with them or flirt with them.


The fact is that girls frequently need a little prodding to realize they like you.

Sometimes they are so preoccupied with other things that they might not just assume that you will like them. So, you might need to flirt with a friend and show them what they are missing.

It’s a risky move that occasionally may not pay off, but it all depends on how you carry on with the execution.

Try not to be too sleazy or overly flirtatious. Even if you’re just trying to make a good impression on her, you should still act gentlemanly.

Be happy

Your lives converge into one another when you are in a relationship, making it simple to suffocate one another. Because of this, you both need to lead fulfilling lives apart from your relationship.

Having a life you love will not only force you to spend time apart, but it will also give the impression that you are highly valued by women.

It is important to maintain a sense of independence and pursue personal interests to avoid becoming too dependent on each other.

This can also help to keep the relationship fresh and exciting by bringing new experiences and perspectives into the partnership. 

Zero effort

There is zero effort required for this trick. It entails putting distance between you and the woman, like she doesn’t exist or is less important than you. Simple examples include ignoring her outright in your daily life or taking a long time to respond to her texts.

The girl begins to doubt herself when you do this. She questions why you abruptly stopped focusing on her.

She starts to become obsessed with you as she asks herself a variety of questions.

This kind of behavior can be emotionally damaging and manipulative.

It’s important to communicate openly and honestly with the girl to avoid causing unnecessary harm to her mental health. 


Act as her hero. Don’t just sit there with her whenever she is in trouble or anxious about something.

Despite the fact that you may not fully understand what she is going through and that you may not have all the answers, try to make the situation better for her.

Ask her how you can assist. Be understanding and supportive of whatever she experiences.

You should always try to change things when you can, but you should also proceed carefully to avoid hurting her in any way.

Go above and beyond the call of duty if she already likes you. Cook her breakfast and then clean up the dishes; this will surprise her, and she’ll appreciate it.


Pay attention to your appearance.

The girl of your dreams probably won’t be impressed by the fact that you were wearing the same clothes you used to mow the lawn while you were hanging out with your guy friends.

It’s important to dress appropriately for the occasion and put effort into your grooming.

This shows that you respect yourself and those around you and can make a positive impression on others.


Be enticing. To attract a woman, you must at the very least possess some form of charm.

The majority of men are charming in a few different ways, but here are some ideas to consider: Show some class. Opening doors, paying for dates, keeping your word, etc. are examples of this.

Girls adore having men show them that they are interested in them.

Be clever. Girls adore guys who can turn any topic into a joke and who have great conversational skills. Learn how to mock yourself with style.

Be knowledgeable.

Try your best to be well-read, aware of current events, and inquisitive. Women favor intelligent but approachable men. 


Be reliable. At the end of the day, every girl wants a guy who is trustworthy, not because he has to but because he wants to.

Telling a girl she has security in you is the key to being dependable. Be the most trustworthy person you can be.

Follow through on your commitments. “Walk the walk” after “talking the talk.” Guys who make promises but then never follow through on them are unpopular with girls.

Be on time. A girl despises having to wait on a guy, despite the fact that some girls are tardy for dates. It conveys to her the message, “I don’t care about you enough to be on time.” Tell her if you’re going to be late. Maintain a solid reputation.


The majority of women don’t really care how much money you make or who your parents are, as long as you can support them.

That’s great because wealth isn’t a blessing for the majority of men.

When dealing with women, keep in mind the following: Like men, sometimes women want to be spoiled. They don’t need anything extravagant, but they enjoy being spoiled.

Save enough money so you can occasionally treat her like a princess. The majority of women dislike men who show off their wealth.

Don’t show off your wealth because you might scare her off if you do.


Achieve harmony between your sensitive and masculine sides.

Girls prefer guys who have a sense of femininity without being overtly feminine.

That calls for you to be sympathetic to her position while still acting as manly as possible.

Take note of the following cues: It’s okay to be vulnerable around her and to cry at a movie. Girls will see this as a sign that you are at ease enough around them to be open, and this will strengthen your relationship.

Don’t believe those who tell you that women only desire strong, masculine men.

It’s acceptable to dress nicely, but not overly so. As was previously mentioned, girls adore a man who can dress well.

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