Would you like women to always be interested in you?
Well, what if I told you that actually is possible. You just need to make sure that you are doing some things consistently.
There are certain things that a woman needs to see a man doing before she will be interested. Things like not letting go of himself and opening up emotionally.
If a man is doing all or some of these things that she expects and also the things that she needs, he will become irresistible to her. So today I’m going to tell you about what you need to do to make sure women will always be interested in you. So, are you ready to become irresistible?
How to make women interested in you
Be a gentleman
Don’t forget to be a gentleman! Hold out her chair for her, offer to take her coat and open the door for her.
It is also important to remember not to interrupt her while she is speaking and listen to what she has to say.
Not all men are gentlemen these days, so she will really appreciate you acting like this.
Challenge her
Women like it when a guy is brave enough to challenge them. Obviously, you do not want to be rude and offend her when you are challenging her.
If she is talking about something seriously though, you could add your opinion to the conversation.
Women find it interesting when guys challenge them like this and enjoy this type of lively conversation.
Be there for her
When she is having a challenging time or struggling, make sure that you are there for her.
Women want to find guys that are always going to be there for them, no matter what.
Compliment her
Women love it when you compliment them.
You could compliment how she looks or make it a more personality-based compliment. As long as it is genuine and you really mean it, she will really appreciate it.
Never stop flirting
Keep flirting even after she becomes your girlfriend because it helps keep the relationship exciting.
It also of course keeps her interested in you, which is what you want!
Don’t let her take advantage of you
Women do not like it when men are pushovers. Sure, they want you to do things for them, but they don’t want to be able to walk all over you.
Check in with yourself regularly so that you can make sure she does not take advantage of you.
Continue to surprise her
When you first start dating someone, there are often a lot of surprises. As things progress though, these can disappear, don’t let them!
Appreciate her
Make sure that she knows how much you appreciate her. If you have just started dating, it could be as simple as thanking her for being there.
Ask her about herself
Don’t let all the focus be on you.
Ask her about herself and get to really know her. Girls love it when guys show an interest in them and do not just talk about themselves.
Plan dates
Don’t let her be the one to plan all of the dates.
She will want to organize some of course but why not surprise her with a date night.
It could be as simple as going to watch a movie or go out for dinner. She will love that you care enough about her to put in this type of effort.
Open up
Women tend to be more interested in a man when he has been vulnerable in front of her. That is why it is important that you open up to her and tell her how you feel.
If you find it difficult to do this, then you don’t have to open up about something personal. You could pick a work dilemma that you are having or a disagreement with a friend.
Stay in touch
Do not think that because she has shown interest in you once that she will continue to.
Women can lose interest in a man very quickly. To keep her interested stay in touch with her, even if things don’t seem to really be going anywhere.
Talk about where things are going
A girl would love it if you were the one to start the discussion of where things are going. Girls are normally the ones that are left to do this.
If you are the one to talk about where things are going, then she will be so impressed at your capacity to take the relationship so seriously.
Maintain respect
Always be respectful of any woman that you date and maintain it over time.
If you find that your respect level is slipping, then maybe ask yourself why? Are you still interested in her or have you lost your feelings for her?
Respect should be something that you both have for each other.
Keep up the intimacy
When you have been with someone for a long time, the intimacy can fizzle out.
Over time you lose that exciting part of your relationship, and this can lead to bigger problems down the road like her losing interest in you.
Make sure that you keep up the intimacy and show her how important she is to you.
Keep focusing on you
So many guys lose sight of themselves when they enter into relationships. They get swept up in love and forget to think about themselves.
You will be a better partner and person if you focus on yourself. Keep doing the things you love with the people you love. This will make your relationship last longer as well.
Give her space
Make sure that you are not always around. Give her some space so that she can also have her own life.
Women are very independent. They want a partner who will spend time with them but also allow them to live their own life in a way that they want to.
Have empathy
Women are known for being empathic. That is when you can really understand someone’s feelings and sympathize with them.
It shows the other person that you really care about them and how they are feeling.
Although women are known for being empathic it does not mean that men cannot be. It is something that women often struggle to find within a man.
So, if you can show her this side of you then she will always be interested in you.
Listen to her
Really listen to everything she has to say.
Women are often more open than men are at least at the beginning anyway. They will tell men everything that is going on in their lives and they need someone that is going to really listen to them.
Not only listen but also give their opinion. Show her that you are listening by repeating some of what she says back to her.
Put her needs first
Relationships should be 50/50. Sometimes though it is important that you put her needs before your own.
She might be going through a really challenging time at work and so she requires more attention so that she can work through it. Or maybe she is not feeling very well, and she needs you to look after her instead of going out with your friends.
Putting her ahead of yourself and sometimes even your friends shows her that you are committed to her and that you really care about her.
Talk about the future
When you reach an appropriate stage in your relationship, start talking about your future together.
You could mention that you would love to go on holiday with her or that you would like to live with her one day.
This shows her that you can see a future with her which will keep her interested and excited.
Be her hero
Do something that makes her think, wow he is my hero. It does not need to be really epic.
It can be something small like picking up her dry cleaning.
She will be so impressed that you have made an effort to do something that in her eyes makes you her hero.
Do housework
Don’t leave all the housework up to her, especially if you share a house. Offer to do the vacuuming and change the bed sheets. Do her washing and wash up the dishes.
These jobs don’t take up much time, but they mean the world to any girl.
It shows that you are willing to share the load and not leave it to her.
She will be extremely interested in you because not all guys are like this!
Fit in with her family
We can’t like everybody and sometimes we meet people that we really do not like. It is really important though that you get along with your girlfriend’s family.
Even if you find them really annoying, you only have to smile and offer some conversation when they are around.
If she can see that you are making an effort and trying to fit in, then she will be so happy.